Can these be boys shabbos shoes?

amother

↑ Tangerine ↓

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 9:25 am

amother Razzmatazz wrote:

Ok and when did your older kids (who didn’t have older sibling simchas) get their first shabbos shoes?

Then they had uncle and aunts weddings Smile

When there is no simcha there are no shabbos shoes for little ones...
If simcha is in beginning of season you cqn stretch shoes to last two yomtovem seasons only buying one pair.
Simcha before rosh hashana gets shabbos and even if snug will wear for pesach and opposite too.
So a young xhild who looks like always wearing new shabbos shoes may be wearing one's that are a little small from last season just to go to shul (and then spending rest of the day in park in crocs)

amother

↑ Tangerine

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 9:27 am

mommy3b2c wrote:

31 for a 4 year old is abnormally large . I wear a size 35…

Are you very petite??
Yes thats big for a four year old but my 9 year olds have always worn at least 3 sizes bigger than you

amother

Turquoise ↓

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 9:31 am

amother Lightgray wrote:

My 4 year old is a size 31 too.

Wow that's huge. My almost 4yo wears size 25 or 26 & he's an average to tall-ish height.

The shoe linked in the op should last from September to May with daily wear & high top velcro shoes can be sized generously so they don't outgrow. My kids get 1 such pair for winter & then sneakers for summer.

At that age any solid black shoe can pass for shabbos in winter.

amother

↑ Razzmatazz

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 9:37 am

amother Turquoise wrote:

and he was a preemie too! he’s tall but not a giant.

amother

↑ Turquoise

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 9:37 am

amother Tangerine wrote:

Are you very petite??
Yes thats big for a four year old but my 9 year olds have always worn at least 3 sizes bigger than you

Boy or girl? Very large for either but especially for girl.

↑ Busybee5 ↓

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 9:57 am

mommy3b2c wrote:

31 for a 4 year old is abnormally large . I wear a size 35…

Yes, and I'm a 36.5... My 8 year old is only just in a 30 now.

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amother

SandyBrown

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 2:49 pm

amother Jasmine wrote:

I am sitting here in Eretz Yisroel with a War going on. We had close to 300 real rockets shot into Our beautiful country today from Lebanon. They reached the Center of our country. Bnei Brak. Petach Tikva, Pardes Chana, Rosh Ha'ayin Train station which is a nice size. I know what you are going through is also very important to you but please, Hold your little boy. Let him run around and play. Those shoes were adorable for a 4 year old. (If he was 7 I could hear you ask. If you live in a place like Belz or Visznitz also). I know you will all say this has nothing to do with that but to me it does. Let your little one be dressed like a 4 year old. He is gonna get dirty. let him be little and be happy.

I also live in Eretz Yisrael.
I say enjoy dressing your kids and spending time deciding on different options. I just ordered gorgeous new winter coats for my girls. I absolutely spent time looking through the options.
Let's enjoy life!

amother

Brown

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 3:49 pm

Op is your son uncomfortable in step Ins because he has a high in step or a thicker foot?
I got my kids these for years and they’re perfect for kids who don’t have very skinny feet. They’re super comfy and under $20 , and in my opinion very shabbosdig.

https://www.amazon.com/LONSOEN.....psc=1

amother

↑ Jasmine

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 5:42 pm

amother SandyBrown wrote:

I am the post you answered. Yes enjoy life. Buy clothes, shoes, whatever you and your family needs. I just wanted to write the group that a 4 year old might not need a pair of special shoes. I hear that many will buy for Simchas in the family and the child has. We should all be blessed with Simchas. Yes it is exciting to get new clothing and shoes.

amother

Thistle ↓

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 7:57 pm

preciousmommy wrote:

https://www.cheetashoes.com/product-page/double-strap-dress-shoes

OP, what about these? Good price, velcro, and definitely dress shoes for a 4 year old.

These are so pretty! I haven't bought their shoes but my friends are very happy with the quality of their products.

amother

↑ Thistle

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 7:58 pm

amother Razzmatazz wrote:

My kids must be atypical then. They always grow 3 sizes a year My just turned 4 year old wears a size 31 (for shoes we bought before RH) His last pair of shoes before that was in May and he was 29 then. My 9 year old is still growing 2 sizes a year

Wow! My 6 year old is in size 26.

amother

↑ OP

Today at 10:29 am

preciousmommy wrote:

https://www.cheetashoes.com/product-page/double-strap-dress-shoes

OP, what about these? Good price, velcro, and definitely dress shoes for a 4 year old.

I love these!! unfortunately sold out in his size Sad

amother

Moonstone

Today at 11:57 am

I bought these for my 6 year old son who insisted on velcro shoes. Not so much "frum" style but they are comfortable, look nice and have held up well so far.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/prod.....psc=1