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 Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:33 am
Or 6. I'm most confused about 6, not really sure what to make of them
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amother
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:34 am
| amother Yellow wrote: | I’m also a 4 , so I’m gonna describe dh instead, since I’ve got no clue what he is.
Organized, black and white thinker, super rational, vies for justice, seeks truth, disciplined, doesn’t understand people who function differently than him. Puts the needs of others first and very frustrated with people who act selfishly. Introverted, witty with sense of humor. Good self esteem and doesn’t need approval from others. |
I would say 1
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amother
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:35 am
Crave warmth
Sometimes insecure
Proud of my accomplishments
Not a go getter
Love to relax
Lonely sometimes
Like music , reading and good food
Not able to let loose in a large crowd- I do better with 1 on 1 relationships
Value my friends
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amother
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:35 am
| InnerMe wrote: | | Thats so interesting bec they seem to be opposites to me. I onky now realized that 1s are wings to 9s |
They're both in the gut triad together with 8
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:36 am
I used to be obsessed with the enneagram years and years ago when I came across Miriam adahans book. I couldn't figure out whether I was 4 or 6. And it drove me crazy.
Years later someone mentioned that perhaps I'm a 5 with 4 and 6 wings.
But now 5 doesn't either quite resonate, So who knows? It doesn't matter all that much anymore to me.
Op I am curious though about 3s I would not have thought a 3 would be interested in this system so much.
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amother
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:36 am
| amother Saddlebrown wrote: | Crave warmth
Sometimes insecure
Proud of my accomplishments
Not a go getter
Love to relax
Lonely sometimes
Like music , reading and good food
Not able to let loose in a large crowd- I do better with 1 on 1 relationships
Value my friends |
6?
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amother
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:39 am
| InnerMe wrote: | I used to be obsessed with the enneagram years and years ago when I came across Miriam adahans book. I couldn't figure out whether I was 4 or 6. And it drove me crazy.
Years later someone mentioned that perhaps I'm a 5 with 4 and 6 wings.
But now 5 doesn't either quite resonate, So who knows? It doesn't matter all that much anymore to me.
Op I am curious though about 3s I would not have thought a 3 would be interested in this system so much. |
Tell me about yourself and I'll try to "diagnose" u.
The reason I love it is because I have to be on top of my game in every area, when I touch on a topic I must know it thru and thru. Politics, history, jewish thought, I am obsessed with knowing something thoroughly because I need to know everything better than you!
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amother
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:43 am
| amother OP wrote: | Tell me about yourself and I'll try to "diagnose" u.
The reason I love it is because I have to be on top of my game in every area, when I touch on a topic I must know it thru and thru. Politics, history, jewish thought, I am obsessed with knowing something thoroughly because I need to know everything better than you! |
You sound like a 5 personality  . Are you into your looks a lot?
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:44 am
| amother Lemonlime wrote: | | You sound like a 5 personality . Are you into your looks a lot? |
Agreed. 5 vibes. But I trust that she’s spent a good amount of time thinking about this.
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:45 am
| amother OP wrote: | Tell me about yourself and I'll try to "diagnose" u.
The reason I love it is because I have to be on top of my game in every area, when I touch on a topic I must know it thru and thru. Politics, history, jewish thought, I am obsessed with knowing something thoroughly because I need to know everything better than you! |
I hear. That's so interesting.
I actually also do deep dives on stuff but it's more coming from a place like I need to get to the complete bottom of this. Surface level won't do. Not in comparison to others I just need to ferl like I really understand the topic I'm interested on a deep level only then does it feel satisfying.
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daagahminayin
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:49 am
Tell you my personality? Well, for sure if it were possible for anyone to write down their entire personality in a post, you’d be able to give them their enneagram number, since all you’d be doing is translating numbers to words.
But even if some people view themselves so plainly, I can’t see myself that way, and try not so see others that way either. How could I write down who I am and hand it over to you just like that, for you to know me and tell me more about myself than I already know?
Alright, maybe I’m being too arrogant here. Certainly, it’s possible for people to notice things about you from the outside that you aren’t that aware of. Receiving such feedback is one of life’s greatest joys, or pains, depending on how it hits us.
But still, I wonder… would you really be able to pinpoint me with one number? And have you spent as much time researching this topic as I have, looking at wings, and tri-types, watching the videos of panels of people claiming different enneagram numbers, trying to find where you fit in? Is it here? Or maybe here…?
Have you been down all the other rabbit holes of other typing systems, gone deeper and deeper trying to understand yourself and others, realizing how complex and intricate and different we all are - but coming out the other end realizing how none of this actually matters because underneath it all we are all one?
I apologize if my tone sounds strong. It’s actually a compliment because I am trusting you with more of my real self than I normally do with people I don’t know, for the purpose of analysis, of course. But if you met me in real life you wouldn’t see this side of me at first. Instead I would be much sweeter, trying to give you the side of myself that would be the nicest for you. Not because I need you to like me but because I want to be good and make you feel good.
There. That should be enough about me for you to go on.
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yachnabobba
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:50 am
Methodical
Insecure
Moral compass
Messy
Very very bright
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amother
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:56 am
| daagahminayin wrote: | Tell you my personality? Well, for sure if it were possible for anyone to write down their entire personality in a post, you’d be able to give them their enneagram number, since all you’d be doing is translating numbers to words.
But even if some people view themselves so plainly, I can’t see myself that way, and try not so see others that way either. How could I write down who I am and hand it over to you just like that, for you to know me and tell me more about myself than I already know?
Alright, maybe I’m being too arrogant here. Certainly, it’s possible for people to notice things about you from the outside that you aren’t that aware of. Receiving such feedback is one of life’s greatest joys, or pains, depending on how it hits us.
But still, I wonder… would you really be able to pinpoint me with one number? And have you spent as much time researching this topic as I have, looking at wings, and tri-types, watching the videos of panels of people claiming different enneagram numbers, trying to find where you fit in? Is it here? Or maybe here…?
Have you been down all the other rabbit holes of other typing systems, gone deeper and deeper trying to understand yourself and others, realizing how complex and intricate and different we all are - but coming out the other end realizing how none of this actually matters because underneath it all we are all one?
I apologize if my tone sounds strong. It’s actually a compliment because I am trusting you with more of my real self than I normally do with people I don’t know, for the purpose of analysis, of course. But if you met me in real life you wouldn’t see this side of me at first. Instead I would be much sweeter, trying to give you the side of myself that would be the nicest for you. Not because I need you to like me but because I want to be good and make you feel good.
There. That should be enough about me for you to go on. |
Love u. You're a 5 or a 2
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amother
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 8:59 am
| yachnabobba wrote: | Methodical
Insecure
Moral compass
Messy
Very very bright |
You've got to be a 5.
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amother
Teal
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 9:01 am
| amother Winterberry wrote: | | I love to help people anonymously more than non anonymously. Introvert. I hate meeting new people or new settings. Yet I love family events. Stubborn. Grateful to hashem or to anybody to does me favors. Anxious. I'm a perfectionist and messy combined. (How that makes don't ask me) . I get frazzled easily. I need my self care every single day or otherwise I'm a mental mess. I'm very lazy. I love gifts and jewelry. Very emotional type. |
Hey you're me!
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amother
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 9:03 am
| InnerMe wrote: | I hear. That's so interesting.
I actually also do deep dives on stuff but it's more coming from a place like I need to get to the complete bottom of this. Surface level won't do. Not in comparison to others I just need to ferl like I really understand the topic I'm interested on a deep level only then does it feel satisfying. |
5 would be my guess but the true test is vice and virtues. Do u often feel envy of others lives or like ure life is missing something?
Or do u relate more to the protection of ure resources, trying to need very little and retain as much as you cud
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amother
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 9:20 am
where are my 7s and 8s
we're the best ones
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 9:21 am
Thanks. No, I’m likely a 4w5. Or perhaps a 6. The older I get the more I can accept the 6 parts in me. When I did the tritype test I got 461.
Anyway, these days I’m more into Jungian cognitive functions and Human Design/Gene Keys.
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amother
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Sun, Nov 24 2024, 9:22 am
I have thought of myself as a bunch of different ones but curious what you would say.
I am:
- excellent in social situations
- excellent communicator
- very self aware
- wise
- intelligent and deep but not good with numbers/abstract ideas and not airy fairy spiritual.
- great problem solver, creative thinker
- easily overwhelmed and anxious
- when in the zone can hyper focus and get tons done
- doesn't like confrontation, a bit of a people pleaser.
- empath and generous
- opinionated
- likes things, ideas, expectations to be clear and organized but in real life I struggle with actual upkeep of this.
- justice is huge for me
- struggles with consistency and follow through even though I have brilliant ideas.
- wants to matter/make a difference/be needed
- care to look good and have nice gashmius but my laziness or desire for comfort trumps that.
I have ADHD so some of this is not personality but part of my neurodivergence.
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