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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:30 am
Ruchel wrote: | I think it's weird not to take it on always. |
That's what I think. Now if you want to compare it to lashon hara, which I think is completely incomparable, then say you want to stop speaking lh. Not you will stop for 10 days and then go back to doing it. It's like saying you will diet for 10 days and then pig out. It makes no sense to me.
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:30 am
Crayon210 wrote: |
Quote: | -if she thinks she should not rely on it, why only 10 days? |
She thinks it's better not to rely on it, but she's not able to for the rest of the year, so she at least tries during these ten special days. |
that is not the case ... she is doing this because that is what a lot of people who eat cholov stam do during aseres y'mei tshuva ... to me it's only a worthwhile effort if you are trying to do it year round ... not for a few days ...
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:35 am
Lady Godiva wrote: | octopus wrote: | Just that chalav stam is always assur. People who eat "chalav stam" are not really eating chalav stam. |
Are you sure you have it right? I was under the impression that chalav stam is from milk we know is cow's milk but not watched by a Jew and chalav akum is milk of "ovde cochavim umazalot", from an unknown source... |
under normal circumstances, chalav stam in not allowed. The united states has strict rules regulating the milk industry (farmers would be majorly prosecuted if they slipped in any other kind of milk with the cow milk). I'm not an expert in all of the ins and outs of american law, but according to rav moshe feinstein zt'l, he gave a heter to eat american dairy foods that were under hashgacha in the factories, even though no Jews were watching during the milking process. That is because one is relying on the strict government regulation of the stuff.
What you eat is not "chalav stam" in the halakhic sense.
Disclaimer: I am no rav or posek. I hope I got the fine details of my explanation correct.
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:35 am
greenfire wrote: | Crayon210 wrote: |
Quote: | -if she thinks she should not rely on it, why only 10 days? |
She thinks it's better not to rely on it, but she's not able to for the rest of the year, so she at least tries during these ten special days. |
that is not the case ... she is doing this because that is what a lot of people who eat cholov stam do during aseres y'mei tshuva ... to me it's only a worthwhile effort if you are trying to do it year round ... not for a few days ... |
And why do they do that? Because there is a general understanding among them that it is better not to rely on CS.
I am surprised that you would be judging what are worthwhile efforts. You always promote being non-judgmental and not playing Gd. Why the double standard here?
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:36 am
Lady Godiva wrote: | Ruchel wrote: | I think it's weird not to take it on always. |
That's what I think. Now if you want to compare it to lashon hara, which I think is completely incomparable, then say you want to stop speaking lh. Not you will stop for 10 days and then go back to doing it. It's like saying you will diet for 10 days and then pig out. It makes no sense to me. |
Like I said b/f, when the King is in our houses, we are on our best behavior.
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:40 am
Crayon210 wrote: |
I am surprised that you would be judging what are worthwhile efforts. You always promote being non-judgmental and not playing Gd. Why the double standard here? |
I think it's a double standard to pretend to be different for merely 10 days ...
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:41 am
octopus wrote: |
under normal circumstances, chalav stam in not allowed. The united states has strict rules regulating the milk industry (farmers would be majorly prosecuted if they slipped in any other kind of milk with the cow milk). I'm not an expert in all of the ins and outs of american law, but according to rav moshe feinstein zt'l, he gave a heter to eat american dairy foods that were under hashgacha in the factories, even though no Jews were watching during the milking process. That is because one is relying on the strict government regulation of the stuff.
What you eat is not "chalav stam" in the halakhic sense.
Disclaimer: I am no rav or posek. I hope I got the fine details of my explanation correct. |
http://oukosher.org/index.php/.....l/P0/
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Ruchel
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:42 am
octopus wrote: | Lady Godiva wrote: | octopus wrote: | Just that chalav stam is always assur. People who eat "chalav stam" are not really eating chalav stam. |
Are you sure you have it right? I was under the impression that chalav stam is from milk we know is cow's milk but not watched by a Jew and chalav akum is milk of "ovde cochavim umazalot", from an unknown source... |
under normal circumstances, chalav stam in not allowed. The united states has strict rules regulating the milk industry (farmers would be majorly prosecuted if they slipped in any other kind of milk with the cow milk). I'm not an expert in all of the ins and outs of american law, but according to rav moshe feinstein zt'l, he gave a heter to eat american dairy foods that were under hashgacha in the factories, even though no Jews were watching during the milking process. That is because one is relying on the strict government regulation of the stuff.
What you eat is not "chalav stam" in the halakhic sense.
Disclaimer: I am no rav or posek. I hope I got the fine details of my explanation correct. |
Europe is even stricter... hence the European rabbinates allowing it too.
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:43 am
greenfire wrote: | Crayon210 wrote: |
I am surprised that you would be judging what are worthwhile efforts. You always promote being non-judgmental and not playing Gd. Why the double standard here? |
I think it's a double standard to pretend to be different for merely 10 days ... |
That's not really what a double standard is.
You better be careful. She might decide she doesn't want to just keep it for ten days...
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:44 am
Just as an aside, lady godiva, many of the terms ppl throw around in their daily lives like "treif" or " glatt" is really not what treif or glatt means, in the true halachic sense.
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:45 am
greenfire wrote: | octopus wrote: |
under normal circumstances, chalav stam in not allowed. The united states has strict rules regulating the milk industry (farmers would be majorly prosecuted if they slipped in any other kind of milk with the cow milk). I'm not an expert in all of the ins and outs of american law, but according to rav moshe feinstein zt'l, he gave a heter to eat american dairy foods that were under hashgacha in the factories, even though no Jews were watching during the milking process. That is because one is relying on the strict government regulation of the stuff.
What you eat is not "chalav stam" in the halakhic sense.
Disclaimer: I am no rav or posek. I hope I got the fine details of my explanation correct. |
http://oukosher.org/index.php/.....l/P0/ |
I was JUST gonna say that...
Read the article - it's worth it.
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:48 am
the link is not working for me. care to summarize?
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Shirley
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:48 am
Actually, it says in the Shulchan Arech that one should abstain from 'pas akim' during the month of Elul. Not that one should make it a New Years Resolution that they will no longer be eating food cooked by a non-Jew, but that in order to show our respect on these days leading up to the High Holy Days, we should be on our best behavior.
Yes, it is perfectly ok to abstain for just a limited time from behavior that is not inherently wrong - just not as perfectly right as it could be.
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greenfire
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:49 am
Crayon210 wrote: | greenfire wrote: | Crayon210 wrote: |
I am surprised that you would be judging what are worthwhile efforts. You always promote being non-judgmental and not playing Gd. Why the double standard here? |
I think it's a double standard to pretend to be different for merely 10 days ... |
That's not really what a double standard is.
You better be careful. She might decide she doesn't want to just keep it for ten days... |
it wouldn't faze me ... I kept cholov yisroel for over 20 years ... I could handle it ...
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:50 am
octopus wrote: | Just as an aside, lady godiva, many of the terms ppl throw around in their daily lives like "treif" or " glatt" is really not what treif or glatt means, in the true halachic sense. |
That's the nature of language. It's always changing and evolving in all kinds of weird and wonderful ways.
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Fri, Oct 03 2008, 11:54 am
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Chalav Yisroel
Milk and dairy products are increasingly available with cholov Yisroel certification. This article will explain what cholov Yisroel means and how facilities operate in order to produce cholov Yisroel. Let’s take a look.
History
In order to prevent the mixture of milk from non-kosher animals into kosher milk (I.e. cow milk or milk from other kosher species), Chazal prohibited us to consume “milk which was milked by a gentile without a Jew supervising” (Gemara Avodah Zarah 35b; Shulchan Aruch Yoreh Deah 115:1). Even if a gentile farmer has no non-kosher species of animals present when he milks his cows, his milk is nevertheless prohibited by this gezerah (rabbinic prohibition) unless there is Jewish supervision to assure that milk from non-kosher animals was not mixed in (Shulchan Aruch ibid.).
Chazal enacted the ban on unsupervised milk even when standard milk is normally kosher. On a D’oraisah (Biblical) level, if the majority of milk available in a given market is derived from kosher animals, one would be permitted to purchase that milk without further concern, based on the principal of “rov” (one can rely that a product has the status of the majority). Notwithstanding the principal of Rov, unsupervised milk was subject to the aforementioned rabbinic prohibition. Thus, unless it can be fully verified that milk is from kosher species, it is prohibited without Jewish supervision. (Chochmas Adam 67:1) Like all prohibited foods, unsupervised milk renders kelim (food vessels) non-kosher when cooked in them, etc. (Shach YD 115 s.k. 17).
Today, we commonly refer to milk under Jewish supervision as “cholov Yisroel” (“Jewish milk” ), whereas milk lacking Jewish supervision is called “cholov Akum” (“gentile milk” ) or “cholov stam” (“regular milk” ). More on this in the text box.
Basic Cholov Yisroel Requirements
Halacha stipulates that if a milk farm is Jewish-owned, there is no need for special supervision, even if a gentile does the milking, so long as there are no non-kosher animals on site and there is no gentile house interceding between the milking area and the Jewish residence (or office, in modern times). (Shulchan Aruch, Remo ibid.)
When a farm that has non-kosher species provides milk for Jewish consumption, there needs to be an on-site mashgiach who is able to watch the milking at all times (although he can be yotzei v’nichnas, sporadically entering and leaving, and is not required to actually watch the milking throughout). A farm that has only kosher animals needs a mashgiach outside its entrance to prevent non-kosher milk or animals from entering. Here also, the mashgiach need not be there at all times; yotzei v’nichnas supervision suffices. In all cases, the mashgiach must be present before the milking commences in order to check the milking equipment to ascertain that it has been cleansed of any residual unsupervised milk. (Remo ibid. and Shach s.k. 8 ) Additionally, nearly all Poskim require the mashgiach to be present to observe the beginning of the actual milking, even if there are no non-kosher animals at the farm. (Remo ibid., Shach ibid. s.k. 5-6, Taz ibid. s.k. 4, Chochmas Odom 67:1, Aruch HaShulchan 115:7)
The Shach (ibid.) explains that our reliance on yotzei v’nichnas supervision is based on the halachic principle of mirsas, which means that the farmer is afraid to adulterate kosher milk with non-kosher milk out of fear of being caught in the act by the mashgiach. Thus, spontaneous in-and-out supervision suffices.
How is cholov Yisroel supervision conducted?
In earlier years (as well as in present far-flung locales with few Jews), a Jew would go to a non-Jewish farm, inspect the milking pails for cleanliness (or bring his own pails), supervise the milking of one or two cows, and then transport the milk back home. In modern America and many parts of Western Europe, where large Jewish populations rely on having a constant supply of cholov Yisroel available, and farms often have hundreds or many thousands of cows, things are very different.
There are two formats for contemporary cholov Yisroel farming: Farms which are exclusively cholov Yisroel, and those which do special cholov Yisroel productions only upon request.
Exclusively cholov Yisroel farms have full-time mashgichim who literally live at the farms. (The lives of these mashgichim are very difficult, as they are isolated from regular Jewish communities.) In order to assure that mashgichim are present or available for every single milking session, which are often ‘round-the-clock, each of these facilities has a team of two or more mashgichim, so that there is always someone on call. During milking, the mashgichim are free to move about the farm and leave for short breaks, but they are typically stationed in or at the entrance to the “milking parlor” – the room where the milking occurs. Some kashrus agencies insist that their mashgichim insert cards into punch-clocks at the milking parlor every so often in order to guarantee that they will be present at the parlor on a very frequent basis during milking.
Non-cholov Yisroel farms which schedule special cholov Yisroel productions dedicate specific days for cholov Yisroel production with a kashrus agency, upon which a mashgiach will arrive at the farm for a specified period, first inspecting the facility to assure cleanliness of equipment from unsupervised milk, and then remaining present or popping in and out throughout the day while the milking occurs.
In general, Poskim have ruled that yoztei v’nichnas supervision requires the mashgiach be present at the beginning of the milking, come in unannounced at least once in the middle, and come back at the conclusion of the milking. This applies to each milking session, typically lasting eight hours or so. Some kashrus agencies may require more frequent visitation. Farms which are exclusively cholov Yisroel may have more constant mashgiach presence due to the need to have full-time, year-round hashgocho, although – in theory – the mashgichim need not be on-site the entire time.
Modern and advanced technology has afforded cholov Yisroel supervision some innovative benefits. Rather than having mashgichim on-site, many farms outside of the US utilize full-time video screening, in which video cameras are installed in the milking parlors from all angles so that someone at the office of the kashrus agency involved can see exactly what is happening at any given instant. Poskim widely concur that this is an acceptable method of supervision.
Some milk farms in Europe are referred to as “robotic farms”. In these facilities, each cow has a computer-chip tag attached to it, which identifies the cow. When the cow goes to its feeding trough, the tag is read by a computer, and electronic, mobile suction cups programmed to fit to the specific cow’s udders automatically rise to attach themselves to the cow and extract milk. This process is fully-robotic; the only human involvement is to collect milk from the tank where it flows upon milking and to do routine maintenance once or twice per day. This system milks cows for twelve hours straight, unlike the typical eight-hour milking at manual farms. Some have suggested that far less kashrus supervision is needed at robotic farms, as the computerized system will not milk anything other than the cow specified in its data, thus assuring that non-kosher animals are kept out. However, one prominent Posek has argued that the closed-system features of robotic farms do not address the possibility of adulteration of milk elsewhere in the facilities. Nonetheless, the potential technological benefits of robotic farming for cholov Yisroel supervision warrant further investigation.
Additional Hashgocho Requirements
Aside from being present at milking, cholov Yisroel mashgichim perform many tasks which are necessary to assure the kosher integrity of the milk. In farms that are not exclusively cholov Yisroel, mashgichim must first inspect the equipment, which involves removing the seals that secure the milk tank and visually checking that there is no unsupervised milk present from before the cholov Yisroel production.
When the milking is over, the mashgichim must lock and seal the milk tank with special hashgocho locks and/or seals. Once the milk is ready to be transported to a dairy for further processing, the mashgichim (even at exclusively cholov Yisroel farms) need to verify that the truck used is kosher (I.e. that its holding areas are clean and have been kashered, if the truck is also used for unsupervised milk or other non-kosher materials). They then need to seal all of the truck’s openings where milk is pumped in, so that the truck cannot later load up more milk from unknown sources after it has left the farm, and they must subsequently inform the mashgichim at the dairy to where the milk is shipped of the exact seal numbers and other identifying markings, so that the mashgichim at the receiving dairy can be sure that the truck’s loading areas have not been opened since it departed from the farm.
It is imperative that the mashgichim at the farm and dairy maintain logs to record all seals used and received. All quantities of milk shipped and received must also be logged and cross-checked by the mashgichim as a further safeguard.
Shabbos Issues
Milk cows need to be milked every day. How do mashgichim supervise milking on Shabbos? How can seals be affixed and recorded?
In cases of special cholov Yisroel productions at normally-unsupervised farms, mashgichim typically schedule productions for weekdays. Full-time cholov Yisroel farms pose problems, though, as the cows need to be milked under supervision every day – including Shabbos – when the mashgichim cannot seal trucks, record seal numbers, etc. In these cases, the mashgichim are present to supervise Shabbos milking, and they issue seals to the gentile workers before Shabbos, recording the seal numbers and identifiers in advance. Then, on Motzei Shabbos, the farm mashgichim contact the mashgichim at the dairy to inform them of the seal numbers and identifiers. Furthermore, it is necessary to make sure that the milk and trucks are gentile-owned or to take other steps to prevent chillul Shabbos (such as Jewish-owned trucks transporting milk on Shabbos) by the cholov Yisroel company.
At the Dairy Plant – How is the milk handled and processed after it leaves the farms?
The vast majority of dairy processing facilities (milk bottling plants, butter, ice cream and cheese factories, etc.) which manufacture cholov Yisroel products are not dedicated to cholov Yisroel production most of the time. As with many farms, these facilities schedule special cholov Yisroel productions with kashrus agencies, in which mashgichim come to the plant before a cholov Yisroel campaign, kasher the equipment from unsupervised milk (or otherwise non-kosher) use, and supervise the cholov Yisroel production as necessary, checking cholov Yisroel truck seal numbers and all other necessary data to assure that the milk received is truly cholov Yisroel.
Cholov Yisroel products are commonly more costly than products made with unsupervised milk. When one thinks of the effort and expense in cholov Yisroel production, he can begin to understand all of what went into the seemingly simple product he often so mindlessly purchases and enjoys.
Chalav Stam
Cholov Yisroel is a topic of great halachic dispute. Some Poskim rule that milk in many countries no longer needs special supervision, while other Poskim disagree and require supervision. What are the arguments for each side of this machlokes?
In a famous series of teshuvos (Igros Moshe YD 1:47-49), Rav Moshe Feinstein argues that all milk in the US has the halachic status of cholov Yisroel, as the government inspects all dairy factories to assure that there is no milk from non-kosher species, and the dairy companies therefore have fear (“mirsas” ) of being caught and penalized. Thus, we are certain that their milk is 100% from cows and is fully free of adulteration with milk from non-kosher species. This certainty is considered to be virtual halachic witnessing – ”anan sahadei” – and it thereby fulfills the requirements of cholov Yisroel, being halachically equivalent to the Jew actually observing the milk being processed. Reb Moshe was far from the first Posek to rule leniently on such milk (see Chazon Ish YD 41:4), but his lengthy teshuvos are the most elaborate on the topic. Although Reb Moshe states that a ba’al nefesh – one who can take stringencies upon himself – should consume only cholov Yisroel in the traditional sense, he clearly rules that all domestic milk meets cholov Yisroel requirements.
In light of Reb Moshe’s p’sak, American Jewry began to classify traditionally-supervised milk as “cholov Yisroel”, regular domestic milk without mashgichim present as “cholov stam” – “regular milk”, and milk from sources which do not have sufficient government regulations (such as many third-world countries) as “cholov akum” – the type of milk banned in the Gemara.
Reb Moshe (ibid. 1:49) addresses one seeming gap in his argument, which is that although there is government supervision and regulation at processing dairies (which bottle milk, make ice cream, etc.), there are often no such regulations at the actual farms which provide milk to processing dairies. Since the halacha is that milk made without supervision is rendered as assur (prohibited) and cannot later obtain permissibility (Remo YD 115:1), Reb Moshe was challenged as to how milk from unregulated farms could later be permitted when used at dairy processing plants which are subject to government inspection. Reb Moshe ruled that milk does not become prohibited as cholov akum until it reaches the Jewish consumer (“he’gia l’yad Yisroel” ); prior to that, when in non-Jewish hands, the milk is not encumbered by any issur. Thus, he maintained, milk at (non-Jewish) farms is not assur while it is yet there, and when it arrives at the point of processing, from whence it is sold to Jewish consumers, it is already under government supervision.
Those who disagree with Reb Moshe’s position argue on several grounds. Firstly, the principle of anan sahadei may very well not mean that Jews are halachically considered to be viewing the event; rather, anan sahadei likely means that the event is treated as fact, with a full degree of certainty as if it were performed with witnesses, although none are considered to be present in any sense. Thus, the rabbinic requirement for physical presence or observation of milking would not be fulfilled. Secondly, the concept of “he’gia l’Yad Yisroel” is a major chiddush (novel idea), not necessarily well-established in general. Furthermore, there are those who question whether government inspection creates the same level of mirsas as on-site mashgichim. (See Chelkas Yaakov 2:37-38; Chelkas Binyomin YD 115 s.k. 16 and tziyunim ibid. 51-54.)
On the other hand, the Rambam and Shulchan Aruch rule that butter made from unsupervised milk farmed by gentiles is permissible (Hil. Ma’achalos Asuros 3:16, YD 115:3), and the Remo (ibid. 115:2) rules likewise regarding cheese that has Jewish supervision for the cheese-making process but not for the milking. The reason for these exceptions is that we are confident that a gentile does not make cheese or butter from non-kosher milk (e.g. pig or camel milk), as such milk does not properly form into cheese or butter. We see from these halachic positions (disputed by some Geonim, Rishonim and Poskim) that reliance on systems of verification other than literal on-site hashgacha suffices. This rationale could very well be a factor for leniency with cholov stam, where government controls may serve as verification via mirsas, even without relying on Reb Moshe’s interpretation of anan sahadei. Furthermore, many – if not most – milk farmers produce milk for sale to all end-users, having in mind that cheese and butter companies are likely to use their milk, and the basis for permitting milk farmed for cheese and butter use could thus be a factor, obviating any issue posed by a lack of government control at milk farms.
Nevertheless, as mentioned earlier, not all agree that government supervision creates a sufficient level of mirsas, and much milk is farmed for direct consumption, not for cheese or butter use. So, too, unsupervised gentile milk farmed for cheese or butter use is not permitted until it is actually made into cheese or butter. (Remo YD 115:2)
It is noteworthy that the Aruch Ha-Shulchan YD 115:5-6) unequivocally rejected leniencies of his day regarding unsupervised milk, stating that (short of the cheese and butter rule) gentile milk is only permitted within the parameters postulated by Chazal, requiring on-site Jewish presence. |
This is the text of the article from O-U. Here is the link for those interested: http://oukosher.org/index.php/.....l/P0/
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Sat, Oct 04 2008, 2:43 pm
Today I discussed this issue with my husband and I even used the term that Greenfire used "tricking". He said "GOOD QUESTION" and that that is exactly what is written about in different holy books. He did explain to me that it is not considered "tricking" thoug, as it is brought down in the Mishna Brura that even if one eats pas akum or chalav akum all year it is a good thing to refrain from it during Aseres Yemai Teshuva. It is NOT hypocritical even if it may seem so to certain women on this board.
Personally, I think it's admirable to "up" any observance during this period. I don't really do it enough and I have only admiration for people who do. It's not easy.
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Sat, Oct 04 2008, 3:42 pm
IMO, there's a difference between LH and pas akum, since the latter is a chumra, while the former is d'oraisa. OTOH, as long as people are trying to better their behavior, all the power to them. Whether it's just for a short period or not, in the end, it should have an overall positive effect and bring us closer to Hashem, which is really what teshuva is all about.
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Sat, Oct 04 2008, 4:07 pm
There is also an inyan to only eat pas yisroel on shabbos. No tricks there.
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Sat, Oct 04 2008, 5:40 pm
Lady Godiva wrote: | Ruchel wrote: | I think it's weird not to take it on always. |
That's what I think. Now if you want to compare it to lashon hara, which I think is completely incomparable, then say you want to stop speaking lh. Not you will stop for 10 days and then go back to doing it. It's like saying you will diet for 10 days and then pig out. It makes no sense to me. |
But if you diet for 10 days and then pig out, there will be no noticable effect to having dieted. Your health and appearance will be the same. In this case, however, even if you switch back after 10 days you still get to keep the mitzvot you did during that time.
I think a better example would be working overtime for a few days. I might usually work 30 hours a week, but then work 40 one week to earn extra money for the holidays or a major purchase. In this case, I might normally live a certain way, but switch for just 10 days in order to earn extra zechuyot before Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur.
I don't think it's wierd not to take it on for the entire year, the same way it's not wierd to only sometimes work overtime. It's hard to take on certain things, it's not so simple as "I think this is best so that's what I'll do from now on." If only it were that easy!
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