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amother
  Molasses


 

Post Today at 5:00 am
As an abuse survivor, my ds niece does not trigger me... Story isn't so realistic.
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  foreverone




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 5:52 am
Story still makes no sense
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amother
Rose


 

Post Today at 5:56 am
It made no sense to me either
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amother
  Oxfordblue


 

Post Today at 5:58 am
amother Molasses wrote:
As an abuse survivor, my ds niece does not trigger me... Story isn't so realistic.


Different people get triggered by different things.
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amother
Apple


 

Post Today at 6:06 am
My assumption was that she was abused at age 13 and never received help. For whatever reason, seeing someone so vulnerable made those memories resurface, and the negative emotions associated with her own past experience got mixed into her current day family situation.

I do think it could have been edited for better clarity.
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amother
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Post Today at 6:09 am
amother Apple wrote:
My assumption was that she was abused at age 13 and never received help. For whatever reason, seeing someone so vulnerable made thos6e memories resurface, and the negative emotions associated with her own past experience got mixed into her current day family situation.

I do think it could have been edited for better clarity.


She said first she was in attic, had lint on her, then she also said she was roaming the hallways. I'm so confused.

One second I thought abuse, the next minute I thought she encountered a spider or crawly creature.

And the connection with a ds niece, after such a long time, was strange.
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amother
Babypink  


 

Post Today at 6:39 pm
amother OP wrote:
Did anyone understand the story
"It takes a village"?
I didn't grasp what she went thru to realize the ending...

I thought she had a down syndrome sibling that her parents gave up for adoption and never saw again
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ladYdI




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 6:43 pm
So who’s writing a letter to the editor for an explanation?!
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amother
Raspberry


 

Post Today at 6:59 pm
amother Babypink wrote:
I thought she had a down syndrome sibling that her parents gave up for adoption and never saw again


That makes a lot more sense.
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amother
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Post Today at 7:12 pm
amother Babypink wrote:
I thought she had a down syndrome sibling that her parents gave up for adoption and never saw again


So who was it coming at her?
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amother
  Babypink


 

Post Today at 7:50 pm
amother OP wrote:
So who was it coming at her?

it would make sense that as a child she thought maybe her parents would give her up too.
the truth is, this makes the most sense but I don't think this is the case. its more likely some abuse story that was not written well.
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amother
Seablue


 

Post Today at 7:51 pm
If the story was trying to excuse away unacceptable behavior towards a sibling who just had a ds child, and towards the ds child herself, because of some vague, unexplained trauma in the protagonist’s childhood, that’s problematic right there. As adults we’re sometimes triggered by something that takes us back to a traumatic event. That doesn’t make it okay to be mean to anyone, ds, neurotypical or whatever.
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amother
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Post Today at 8:05 pm
amother Babypink wrote:
it would make sense that as a child she thought maybe her parents would give her up too.
the truth is, this makes the most sense but I don't think this is the case. its more likely some abuse story that was not written well.


A 13 year old? It doesn't make sense.
The whole idea she couldn't accept this child until she was older is weird. It's not her child, and her sister clearly loved her.
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amother
Dill


 

Post Today at 8:07 pm
When I read it I thought for sure they left out a paragraph or a few sentences. There is no way they intended for the audience to understand the story as it was printed.
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