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-> Rosh Hashana-Yom Kippur
What do you do kaparos on?
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amother
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 Sat, Oct 05 2024, 11:24 pm
Chicken, money or fish?
I'm too chicken to do it on a 🐔 so I use money.
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amother
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Sat, Oct 05 2024, 11:30 pm
Chicken
PSA. If you see a pregnant (or even not pregnant) woman with an box over her head don’t stare. It’s pretty rude.
What difference does it make if there’s 3 chickens in the box or 5 or 9? Or even 1.
Like it’s so so rude.
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amother
Coffee
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Sat, Oct 05 2024, 11:34 pm
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Chickens theoretically. Practically kaparos is an hour plus drive away and we don't have a big enough vehicle for the whole family, so DH and the older kids will do chickens and the rest of us will have to do money.
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amother
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 1:40 am
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Husband takes kids to chickens. I do money.
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shabbatiscoming
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 3:35 am
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Only money. Never chickens.
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Ruchel
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 4:47 am
My Yekke husband money
So we do 💵
My Polish fam did chicken
My Sefardic fam did egg
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amother
Puce
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 7:41 am
| Ruchel wrote: | My Yekke husband money
So we do 💵
My Polish fam did chicken
My Sefardic fam did egg | .
Most yekkes don't do kaparos at all.
Growing up, we used a fish. My mother bought a carp, and put it in the bathtub. We lived out of town, so no chickens available. I guess noone does that anymore.
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PinkFridge
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 8:43 am
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Rav Munk in The World of Prayer explains kapparos with money.
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Ruchel
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 8:48 am
| amother Puce wrote: | .
Most yekkes don't do kaparos at all.
Growing up, we used a fish. My mother bought a carp, and put it in the bathtub. We lived out of town, so no chickens available. I guess noone does that anymore. |
Most yekke if not all or almost all outside of the oldest maybe use money
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amother
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 9:03 am
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Bingo has kapparos chickens for $5
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Success10
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 10:54 am
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Is fish just not done? Why is always given as one of the three minhagim if it seems that practically no one does it?
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amother
Royalblue
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 11:16 am
Growing up- money.
Now, I am married to a yekke and we don't do it.
I voted money... because we do give tzeddakah but we don't do it as kapparos per say.
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imanotmommy
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 11:40 am
| Success10 wrote: | | Is fish just not done? Why is always given as one of the three minhagim if it seems that practically no one does it? |
I think I learned once that it's hard because it has to stay alive while you're doing it the whole time
Someone said above that a family used fish when there were no chickens, so maybe no families have that minhag lechatchila, or maybe it's just not practical?
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amother
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 11:48 am
| Success10 wrote: | | Is fish just not done? Why is always given as one of the three minhagim if it seems that practically no one does it? |
It's got to stay alive and then given to a poor family as tzedoka so they have food for the seuda hamafseket.
It's not practical logically to get all that done.
We do money as we can't guarantee where the chicken will end up after we have done kaporos, atleast with money we can choose the correct organisation to give it on our behalf.
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amother
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Sun, Oct 06 2024, 11:50 am
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