I have a baby and now I can't daven in shul so what is Yom Tov anyways
These things are all so common and normal to feel during the stage of raising little kids. Also, you might benefit from some tips and hacks to make your day smoother so you all enjoy yom tov. and some perspective shifts on what your role is supposed to be as you cook or take care of kids the whole day and don't have time to be in shul.
I've written so much on this topic over the years and I just compiled it into 1 easy page for you to view it all, print if necessary, and pass the link on to a friend.
