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amother
Cornsilk
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 Mon, Sep 30 2024, 4:36 pm
Start looking for another job.
YOU don’t deserve it.
YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS DONT deserve what it will do to you.
Chazal say knei lecha shachein tov….
Good luck and hugs.
Until you find something else tell urself daily it has nothing to do with you and is a reflection of these people’s projection and low self esteem.
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amother
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Mon, Sep 30 2024, 4:37 pm
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Nasty and demeaning manager who undermines and gaslights - she says to do something a certain way and then calls team members out for having done it the way she wanted. She won’t put things in writing. Very negative attitude.
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amother
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Mon, Sep 30 2024, 4:39 pm
I’ve had this issue once, my solution was to always put everything in writing before doing anything so there was a reference just in case
Like if she calls me or tells me to do something in a meeting, I spend a couple min after summarizing what she wants and how she wants it and emailing her for confirmation
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amother
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Mon, Sep 30 2024, 4:40 pm
QUIT
and I do not say this lightly
it is not worth the toll it will take on you
leave and be grateful you can that this is not a family member you are stuck with chas v shalom
life is too short
your life is too precious
May Hashem Bless you get a much better job immediately and easily
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amother
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Mon, Sep 30 2024, 4:41 pm
| amother Cornsilk wrote: | Start looking for another job.
YOU don’t deserve it.
YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS DONT deserve what it will do to you.
Chazal say knei lecha shachein tov….
Good luck and hugs.
Until you find something else tell urself daily it has nothing to do with you and is a reflection of these people’s projection and low self esteem. |
Yes this.
I too, am in a toxic workplace (not in a typical way, but there are subtle issues that chip away at my happiness and make me feel awful. Mainly a boss who's been ultra nasty to me lately, which is ironic because he keeps screaming about how badly he wants to quit. Whatever...)
I keep reminding myself that I am not STUCK there, and it's just a small part of my life and it doesn't define me.
The bigger issue is not letting work things sour my mood with my family and after work hours (very difficult since I work from home, and find that I'm ALWAYS working to catch up, make up my hours, etc.)
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amother
Yolk
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Mon, Sep 30 2024, 4:41 pm
Leave
I just quit my job!
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amother
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Mon, Sep 30 2024, 4:42 pm
| amother Strawberry wrote: | I’ve had this issue once, my solution was to always put everything in writing before doing anything so there was a reference just in case
Like if she calls me or tells me to do something in a meeting, I spend a couple min after summarizing what she wants and how she wants it and emailing her for confirmation |
Did this as well and it really works. The boss knows she can't call you our for it because you have a written confirmation.
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amother
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Mon, Sep 30 2024, 5:35 pm
The issue us that the abuse is insidious
it does chip away at a person
at anyone
no matter how well they can and do handle it
the affects of abuse do affect the targeted victim negatively
its just a fact
getting it in writing is smart
leaving if possible is a healthy response
depends upon individual factors
hugs and hatzlocha
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synthy
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Mon, Sep 30 2024, 6:19 pm
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How long has she been a manager at the business? If she’s a fixture at the company, QUIT. But I’ve also witnessed several cases where a new manager was hired, didn’t understand that work culture and wreaked havoc turning the whole place toxic. But after about a year the boss noticed what’s happening and they were gone.
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