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amother
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 Sat, Sep 28 2024, 8:58 pm
my husband says he's too old for this stuff and it's enough all night stuff with 2 seders and leil shavuot (which he feels he has to do for peer pressure). he says staying up all or most of the night messes up his sleep for a week. I don't care one way or another.
does your husband do midnight selichot, and do you care one way or another?
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amother
Mistyrose
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:01 pm
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Yep. That what his shul does. It's 1am. Chasidish and most are morning.
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amother
Papayawhip
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:03 pm
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No he says he can’t be up so late. I don’t love it but it is what it is.
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amother
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:04 pm
Yes.
Rest of the weeks is early am.
I used to go tonight.
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amother
Springgreen
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:06 pm
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No. He cant function the next day for work if he goes to sleep so late.
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amother
Copper
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:06 pm
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He’s going tonight for first time
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amother
Rainbow
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:07 pm
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Only the first night. The rest of the week he just goes for the early selichos before shacharis.
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amother
Powderblue
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:11 pm
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Only the first night is late night. The rest are early morning.
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Ruchi
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:16 pm
There is one shul I know that has a 10.30pm selichos. Not everyone holds of it.
Majority ppl where I live hold that it can't be recited before chatzos.
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amother
NeonOrange
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:18 pm
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Nope. In our 40s with 5 kids ages toddler to teens. He stopped about 5-6 years ago. I agree, it would mess up his sleep schedule for a week and the rest of our household
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HonesttoGod
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:19 pm
Growing up I never knew there was a midnight thing. Dad always did early AM.
Husbands shul does 10pm or midnight option for the first night and rest AM. He does the 10pm and I love it.
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amother
Firebrick
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:21 pm
| amother Mistyrose wrote: | | Yep. That what his shul does. It's 1am. Chasidish and most are morning. |
Viznitz does 1am too but only the first night I think. Dh is viznitz. I grew up we did early morning. The first I heard of saying it 1am was when I got married.
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amother
Darkblue
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:24 pm
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My husband is anyways a night owl. So he goes, it doesn't do anything to his sleep schedule differently than what he does himself to his sleep schedule on a daily basis!
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amother
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 9:28 pm
| amother Firebrick wrote: | | Viznitz does 1am too but only the first night I think. Dh is viznitz. I grew up we did early morning. The first I heard of saying it 1am was when I got married. |
Lubavitch also 1Am first night.
I always used to go.
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amother
Peachpuff
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Sat, Sep 28 2024, 10:56 pm
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I went tonight (12:30) and he’ll go (and lead actually) at 7 tomorrow
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