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azoygeshmak ↓

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 3:16 pm

BS”D
This is not a joke, and I am asking with a real toeles as a real person.

What community has the most disorganized people? A place where everyone is “flying”—messy houses, late, all of it.

Feel free to PM. If you’re wondering why I’m asking, it’s because I’d love to fit in somewhere.

amother

Azalea

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 3:18 pm

In a large community you’ll have a decent percentage like that. This is more of a personality less of a community norm so you’ll find it everywhere. But large communities tend to have more diversity. No one can pm you, you are anonymous.

amother

Papaya ↓

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 3:21 pm

I'm a shlucha in a small town. We are the frum "community" and yes I'm very disorganized. So feel free to move here, you'll fit right in (and even feel superior)!

↑ azoygeshmak ↓

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 3:23 pm

amother Papaya wrote:

I'm a shlucha in a small town. We are the frum "community" and yes I'm very disorganized. So feel free to move here, you'll fit right in (and even feel superior)!

Where are you? I’m coming!

↑ azoygeshmak ↓

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 3:24 pm

Not anonymous anymore so please feel free to PM me!

Communities of any size, any (yes any) Orthodox shita and any location.

amother

↑ Papaya ↓

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 3:25 pm

azoygeshmak wrote:

Where are you? I’m coming!

Sure! But there is no local school, kosher food, or mikvah. You need to drive 2 hours, 1.5 hours, and 1/2 hour respectively to access those. (My kids are in Online School, and we stock up and freeze our bread/milk/cheese etc.)

amother

Opal

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 5:24 pm

Scranton

amother

Burntblack

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 5:25 pm

The San Fernando Valley

amother

Steelblue ↓

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 5:28 pm

Northern Alaska. No neigbors to keep up with, cuz no neigbours.

amother

Lilac

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 5:29 pm

OP can you tell us why this is what you’re looking for? I’ve never heard of this as a criteria but also never heard of a place beijf described in this way

Tzutzie

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 5:32 pm

amother Papaya wrote:

You must be very organized or maybe you'll are living off of fruits and veggies....

amother

Lightcoral

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 5:35 pm

amother Papaya wrote:

I want to (daydream that I) live in the middle of nowhere. Where are you?

amother

↑ Papaya

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 5:42 pm

Tzutzie wrote:

You must be very organized or maybe you'll are living off of fruits and veggies....

Yes that

Plus pasta, eggs...

amother

Oatmeal

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 5:53 pm

Why not just joing a community where people can do their own thing without judgement? You can be disorganized, you neighbor can be geshikt, and you can both be happy and judgement free.

amother

Tomato

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 5:57 pm

Maybe south Africa or Argentina or wherever else household help can be had for bubkes..

Seriously, I love messy neighbors & friends, so much less pressure!!

amother

Dustypink

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 6:01 pm

Bayswater

amother

Fuchsia

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 6:04 pm

I know plenty of people in those locations who are very organized & geshikt.

Don't feel bad, love your unique strengths. When people who are super put together come visit you they can let their hair down, relax & feel no pressure.

amother

Winterberry

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 6:06 pm

amother Tomato wrote:

Maybe south Africa or Argentina or wherever else household help can be had for bubkes..

Seriously, I love messy neighbors & friends, so much less pressure!!

Me too..

amother

Broom

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 6:12 pm

Start a new trend in lkwd

amother

Azure

Wed, Sep 11 2024, 6:16 pm

Chelm

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