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Feeling guilty- my response to child cutting her hair



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amother
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Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 9:50 pm
My 5 year old cut her hair with my nail scissors. It was 2 hours after she was supposed to be sleeping, and I was a little frustrated already.
She only cut off a small chunk and it wasn't noticeable, but aside for telling her that we never ever cut things that aren't paper, I said look now your hair isn't as pretty. In my adult mind I meant it wasn't even anymore or when there are now prices that don't fit in a pony, but I feel so so guilty because she probably thinks I told her she isn't pretty.
I know it was the wrong thing to say. Should I bring it up?
How can I repair this?
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Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 9:56 pm
You can clarify what you meant tomorrow. Tell her you meant it won't look even, but of course she will always be beautiful.
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happy chick




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 10:14 pm
Agreed, make it right tomorrow. As you're making her hair, you can point out what looks wrong, but how she still looks beautiful cuz mommies are (amongst many other things) magicians.
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behappy2




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 10:56 pm
I don't see why what you said is so bad. You didn't say that she isn't pretty, you said her hair got botched, which it did. Reality check.
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Raizle




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Aug 15 2024, 10:38 pm
behappy2 wrote:
I don't see why what you said is so bad. You didn't say that she isn't pretty, you said her hair got botched, which it did. Reality check.

She's 5
Not 15
Mind of a child

Op, we all slip up, it's fixable
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amother
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Post Thu, Aug 15 2024, 10:42 pm
5 kids. 4 haircuts I tell them every time they look weird and awful and they never do it again. They need to know the consequences
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amother
Dahlia


 

Post Fri, Aug 16 2024, 11:27 am
My 3 y/o son did this and I told him his upsherin looks funny and it’s going to look funny until his hair grows back and we can fix his haircut 🤷‍♀️
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