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amother
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Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 5:09 pm
What do I wear?

I’ve been to Brit Milla and Upsherin?
All the guests went SUPER fancy
The family all had LONG BEADED GOWNS
The guest some wore maxi, some wore midi
most very glitzy, sequins, beaded, gold, silver etc etc

I can’t imagine how a wedding would be

Can I wear any maxi I have
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mnas




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 6:40 pm
Maxi is usually for family
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amother
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Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 7:08 pm
mnas wrote:
Maxi is usually for family


But it’s a regular Shabbos maxi
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kenz




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 7:11 pm
Maxis are in everywhere, no reason you shouldn’t be able to wear one.
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amother
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Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 7:14 pm
My good friend is Bucharian apparently the guest give a check to pay for their meals ..
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amother
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Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 7:22 pm
amother OP wrote:
What do I wear?

I’ve been to Brit Milla and Upsherin?
All the guests went SUPER fancy
The family all had LONG BEADED GOWNS
The guest some wore maxi, some wore midi
most very glitzy, sequins, beaded, gold, silver etc etc

I can’t imagine how a wedding would be

Can I wear any maxi I have

I think you should be fine with any maxi, as long it’s not too fancy that ppl will think your family.
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amother
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Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 7:25 pm
amother Grape wrote:
My good friend is Bucharian apparently the guest give a check to pay for their meals ..

Yes we do, we have fancy weddings so it’s like 175 to 200 something per a person, sometimes even more these days. And we invite lots of people, so itmagije paying that on your own for all your guests. lol
It’s the way in our community/tradition as in helping out with the wedding cost/wedding gift.
That’s just how we do it and we’re fine with it
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hodeez  




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 7:41 pm
Maci is fine. Yes we bring checks but don't usually expect Ashkis to bring one
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amother
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Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 8:08 pm
My question was is it fancy enough or does that t need to be more embellished
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  hodeez




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 8:11 pm
Maxi is enough
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amother
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Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 8:16 pm
Just because people are wearing sequins, I don't wear sequins if it's not my thing. My friend is bucharian and I dress appropriate for me per the occasion and it works BH.
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amother
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Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 8:32 pm
Great TY
We were invited from OOT
I don’t even know if we could stay after the chuppah
It all depends on how tzniyut the crowd is
I’d hate to spend a lot on a new dress for only the chuppah

Where we live there aren’t so many weddings and the dress (embellished) that I use to wear doesn’t fit anymore
I hope to slim down and fit into it again
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amother
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Post Wed, Aug 14 2024, 9:08 pm
amother Firebrick wrote:
Yes we do, we have fancy weddings so it’s like 175 to 200 something per a person, sometimes even more these days. And we invite lots of people, so itmagije paying that on your own for all your guests. lol
It’s the way in our community/tradition as in helping out with the wedding cost/wedding gift.
That’s just how we do it and we’re fine with it


Really? I’m Bukharian and not fine with it lol
But great explanation 👍
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