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thegiver
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 Tue, Jul 30 2024, 9:23 pm
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You won’t feel burned out because of your baby. You will have more energy. Looking at your baby even when you’re tired will give you energy.
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amother
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Tue, Jul 30 2024, 11:55 pm
| Tzutzie wrote: | | No. If you're working it 💯 is better to be at a sitter who can tend to her needs in a timely manner. |
If it's a private babysitter, then you're right, but in many childcare centers there is a schedule and even when it goes by the child and not a schedule, no provider is free to take care of four, seven, or whatever number of children's needs all in a "timely manner." Some children will have to wait. That's just life.
So if they are waiting anyways then it's much better for the baby to stay with its mother.
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amother
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Tue, Jul 30 2024, 11:59 pm
| tichellady wrote: | | Babies need to be cared by someone loving and attentive, it doesn’t need to be their mother. I don’t think one person caring for 6 babies is going to be very attentive either, although she may be loving. |
Exactly. So when it comes down to it me working from home is still better than a sitter. Neither of us are 100% attentive all the time and baby will have to sometimes wait but if that's the case then better not to have the transitions and temporary caregivers etc. A busy mom and familiar environment is better than a busy sitter and subs in a different environment. Plus once babies start to move they sometimes also hurt each other and that doesn't really get taken care of or stopped...
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amother
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 12:00 am
| amother Midnight wrote: | | But if you're working you're not doing this. You're parking baby in a bouncer or whatever |
You can't put the baby in a bouncer all the time. Slings sometimes but those are very good for babies.
My babies mess up my house while I work.
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amother
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 2:37 am
| thegiver wrote: | | You won’t feel burned out because of your baby. You will have more energy. Looking at your baby even when you’re tired will give you energy. |
Not sure how you can assure OP this. I 100% get burned out by the combination of my work and my kids...
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