You can just relax with your kids when you all come home. They are in need of relaxing time with you just as much as you need it. You can all read together on the couch, everyone reading their own books. Or bake together. The kids really need you when they come home. They need you to just relax with them. Don't worry about the cleaning or nice meals for your husband. You can buy a chicken and stick it in the oven. This is their time to learn how important they are. If you let other things go and just chill together the kids will even do better at school because they will be so relaxed