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Till what age is it appropriate for a father to give his daughters a bath?
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 Tue, May 21 2024, 11:31 am
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I may be in the minority, but I really see bath time and bedtime (which immediately follows) as some of the best quality time of the day. Wind down time is when most of the important conversation and processing of the day occurs, especially for my kiddo with ADHD who doesn’t always like to converse at other junctures. Maybe that’s what the father means.
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amother
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Tue, May 21 2024, 11:32 am
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Why is everyone getting so triggered? How does this thread make you feel bad? 😔
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amother
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Tue, May 21 2024, 11:52 am
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OP, I think you should say something to your SIL. The question is how to do it in a way that doesn’t make anyone feel bad but gets the point across.
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amother
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Tue, May 21 2024, 11:54 am
| amother Tulip wrote: | | Op, aldo, I asked earlier and you never answered, how exactly do you know how exactly the father is spending bath time? Were you there during bathtime, in the bsthroom? |
Read the OP & other posts. You'll get your answer.
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amother
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Tue, May 21 2024, 1:26 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | Read the OP & other posts. You'll get your answer. |
Ive read every post. You havent seen anything. You were told the father likes to bath his child. Unless you ask what that means, I think you are going way over board here.
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amother
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Tue, May 21 2024, 1:30 pm
| amother Tulip wrote: | | Ive read every post. You havent seen anything. You were told the father likes to bath his child. Unless you ask what that means, I think you are going way over board here. |
You most likely didn't read all posts if you didn't see the answer to your question.
I posted upthread that they spent shabbos at our home, and dad gave a bath to 8 year old & mom said how dad loves it & it's a time he looks forward to as their daily daddy daughter bonding & that dad is the only one that bathes her, never mom or herself.
This was all posted upthread. If you didn't see it, then you didn't read all posts.
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amother
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Tue, May 21 2024, 1:31 pm
| amother Tulip wrote: | | Ive read every post. You havent seen anything. You were told the father likes to bath his child. Unless you ask what that means, I think you are going way over board here. |
So I guess you're the SIL?
Now all your comments make sense.....
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amother
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Fri, May 31 2024, 1:39 pm
[quote="shabbatiscoming"]I think you have a very paranoid or scarred perspective.
I am not naive. But I will not live my life the way you seem to. Its just awful starting at the point of assuming men have bad intentions.
And this has nothing to do with being frum or not.[/quote
How exactly do you assume I live my life? What is "paranoid or scarred" about taking proper precautions to protect your children from a potentially unsafe situations and teaching children proper boundaries?
It is a fact that some children get molested. There is nothing "awful" or "paranoid" or "scarred" about taking proper precautions to protect children who may or may not need protection but are unable to protect themselves if they do need protection.
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