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amother
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 Sun, Dec 31 2023, 10:08 am
| amother Tanzanite wrote: | | They have mostly ex chassidish families there. Doesn’t mean they are not ehrlich but like previous poster said the wannabes people need to stop misguiding people in schools I’m hearing way to much how people sent to a school and they were fooled and it was now to late |
Misguiding what?
Why do they take Chasidish pppl?
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 10:11 am
| amother OP wrote: | Misguiding what?
Why do they take Chasidish pppl? |
They take whoever will pay!! They are not choosy
By misguiding I mean like ohh it’s An amazing school with top standards the crowd is not wannabes and meanwhile it is all the above etc.
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 10:14 am
| amother Tanzanite wrote: | They take whoever will pay!! They are not choosy
By misguiding I mean like ohh it’s An amazing school with top standards the crowd is not wannabes and meanwhile it is all the above etc. |
I tried getting in. And know a few others who tried and it's extremely extremely difficult. Money doesn't talk at all.
I do think its amazing .I wonder if my thoughts r misguiding?
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 10:16 am
| amother OP wrote: | I tried getting in. And know a few others who tried and it's extremely extremely difficult. Money doesn't talk at all.
I do think its amazing .I wonder if my thoughts r misguiding? |
I do know someone that was told show them the dollar and you will be in. And why and who rejected you but I kniw they take most so almost shocking they didn’t take you unless they hit now the cleanup stage and bettering the school
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 10:19 am
| amother Tanzanite wrote: | | I do know someone that was told show them the dollar and you will be in. And why and who rejected you but I kniw they take most so almost shocking they didn’t take you unless they hit now the cleanup stage and bettering the school |
They hit the cleaning stage... they're going full blown....
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 2:28 pm
| amother Tanzanite wrote: | They take whoever will pay!! They are not choosy
By misguiding I mean like ohh it’s An amazing school with top standards the crowd is not wannabes and meanwhile it is all the above etc. |
Not anymore. They've become way more strict and selective with who they accept, like every other school.
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realsilver
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:04 pm
| amother Zinnia wrote: | | BY of Pomona is not part of the Pomona community. Does Yeshiva of Spring Valley service the Hispanic community? |
what in the world does this mean?
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:05 pm
| realsilver wrote: | | what in the world does this mean? |
It has nothing to do with Pomona it’s just a name!
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realsilver
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:09 pm
what does spring valley have to do with the hispanic community? Do alot of hispanics live there?
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:11 pm
| realsilver wrote: | | what does spring valley have to do with the hispanic community? Do alot of hispanics live there? | yes
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:14 pm
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If we are a regular frum family then what school do we have a chance of getting into? We’d like to move to Haverstraw as soon as interest rates come down. Kids are toddlers/babies. We don’t have a tv, I am careful with tznius. My husband is working and has strong yeshiva values. I really want a mainstream yeshivish school but don’t know how hard it is to get into that nowadays.
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:16 pm
| amother Dill wrote: | | If we are a regular frum family then what school do we have a chance of getting into? We’d like to move to Haverstraw as soon as interest rates come down. Kids are toddlers/babies. We don’t have a tv, I am careful with tznius. My husband is working and has strong yeshiva values. I really want a mainstream yeshivish school but don’t know how hard it is to get into that nowadays. |
You sound more bas mikrah type or YSV
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:20 pm
Very hard with schools.
Daven and pray and make ppl crazy.
Byop is a good mix.
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:21 pm
that is such a random way of expressing a point, but ok.
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:26 pm
Why are the chassidim lately so into sending not to chassidish schools?
It makes me wonder
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:28 pm
| amother OP wrote: | Why are the chassidim lately so into sending not to chassidish schools?
It makes me wonder |
So in Monsey it’s a real mix lots came from the city to become in a sense shtoddy and better and in a sense have some rebellion in them. Some can’t send to their own chassidus cause they don’t follow there rules and no one else will accept them.
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amother
Beige
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:29 pm
| amother OP wrote: | Why are the chassidim lately so into sending not to chassidish schools?
It makes me wonder |
This was directed to the ima who asked for a mainstream yeshivish school
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:32 pm
Why is the act of not accepting everyone considered “cleaning” a school?
Absolutely disgusting for lack of a better word.
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:39 pm
| amother Ghostwhite wrote: | Why is the act of not accepting everyone considered “cleaning” a school?
Absolutely disgusting for lack of a better word. |
Iykyk there’s reasons they do this
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amother
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Sun, Dec 31 2023, 5:43 pm
We are chassiddim that don’t want to send to chassiddish schools.
When you call people like us wannabe’s, you are lumping everyone together and making assumptions about our intentions. Let alone putting yourself on a pedestal as if people envy you, whoever you are. It’s pretentious, condescending, rude and mean. We just want to live our life the way we understand is the right way.
Chassiddish places won’t work for us. If it’s a strict chassiddish place, our values don’t align. Lenient chassiddish places don’t work either because we specifically want a disciplined place that’s confident with their rules and isn’t afraid to impose them when they feel they’re important. And still, because our values are aligned, we have no problem following them.
If you look at us with disdain, please get out of your self righteous bubble and work on your middos.
There are legitimate concerns about influences and school environments. These are important considerations. But the schools that I admire are the ones that can stick to their principles without compromise and without stereotyping.
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