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Tiferes vs New Bais Faiga vs Bnos Orchos Chaim



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amother
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Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 7:39 pm
Looking for a warm school, good academically, growth oriented, but not crazy down the kids or mothers back about tznius. Meaning no scary stories about tznius, not into rules for mothers, it should feel like focus is on middos and Torah in general not just on tznius.
Not looking for a fancy peer pressure crowd. Which of these most fit the bill?

Just nice, OOT, frum, ehrlich.

Loving morahs who are kind and genuine.
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amother
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Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 7:54 pm
Are you looking into schools for next year? If so, applications already happened and most schools are done interviews
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amother
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Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 7:56 pm
amother Yellow wrote:
Are you looking into schools for next year? If so, applications already happened and most schools are done interviews


Had interviews already. Just second guessing myself.
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amother
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Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 8:02 pm
Bnos orchos Chaim definitely not that.
But I'm pretty sure they gave answers already.
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amother
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Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 8:12 pm
If you're only considering these 3, I would say tiferes.
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amother
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Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 8:31 pm
amother Viola wrote:
If you're only considering these 3, I would say tiferes.


If considering others what would you say? Just curious

I really want a warm positive atmosphere
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Writergirl




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 9:02 pm
Boc checks all of those boxes!
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amother
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Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 9:06 pm
You might not have a choice, you might only get into one or none.
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amother
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Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 9:08 pm
I think all of those will likely have rules for mothers, almost all schools here do and those aren’t of the more left
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amother
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Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 9:08 pm
Writergirl wrote:
Boc checks all of those boxes!

It ABSOLUTELY does not.
If you get in there and another school, run to the other school.
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amother
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Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 9:18 pm
amother Natural wrote:
I think all of those will likely have rules for mothers, almost all schools here do and those aren’t of the more left


I just don’t want it to be a major focus. It’s ok if it’s a side point. But I don’t want to feel like it’s all about that. (I have seichel. I don’t wear a fall sheitel to PTA, and I dress appropriately. I just don’t want to feel policed. I am a tzniusdig person by nature.)
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amother
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Post Thu, Nov 07 2024, 9:25 pm
amother OP wrote:
I just don’t want it to be a major focus. It’s ok if it’s a side point. But I don’t want to feel like it’s all about that. (I have seichel. I don’t wear a fall sheitel to PTA, and I dress appropriately. I just don’t want to feel policed. I am a tzniusdig person by nature.)

I got multiple calls abt my daughters tznius there. (She was very tznius. Just not super skinny.) I know this happened to other larger girls.
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