Vent. I hate blowout diapers.

amother

↑ Goldenrod ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 2:15 pm

amother OP wrote:

I needed this laugh! Thank you!

I’m thinking this is something to discuss with your LOR. Just cause a random lady on imamother believes in larger size diapers doesn’t mean it’s the psak you’ll get. I know someone who was told to only check twice in seven days so maybe that’s an idea for you.

amother

↑ Black

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 2:32 pm

amother Goldenrod wrote:

OP, you’re getting stuck in your own way of thinking. Imagine how the diaper feels. I know when My cousin’s SIL was stuck inside a diaper, it was really smelly and claustrophobic in there and she really needed a breather. So try to be open to other perspectives. Sometimes you need to stretch yourself when your diaper cannot. Also, there’s always therapy. And BC.

Not to mention divorce.

amother

↑ Goldenrod

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 2:41 pm

amother Black wrote:

Not to mention divorce.

Actually I disagree. If it was the diaper at fault, divorce could be a good option. But I actually believe it is OP who is abusive by denying the contents of the diaper their basic rights to fresh air and artificial light. No matter how poorly behaved they are, diapers cannot be abusive. Only parents can be. OP needs to stop traumatizing the poor diaper.

ETA OP, you seriously should consider therapy to find out what’s so triggering about these diaper blowouts. There are so many people who have overcome these and related fears and now live happier lives.

amother

Oxfordblue ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 2:46 pm

What on earth is a diaper blowout??

Is it what I think it is?
When it peaks out?

BrisketBoss ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 2:51 pm

amother Oxfordblue wrote:

What on earth is a diaper blowout??

Is it what I think it is?
When it peaks out?

It's when poop leaks from the diaper.

amother

↑ Oxfordblue ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:13 pm

amother Apricot wrote:

Oh how I remember many years ago, when my brother decided to bounce my baby on his lap, and baby had a blowout diaper, and wasn't wearing anything else but a diaper, to perhaps contain it... Bounce

This post got me confused...

Thanks.

↑ Busybee5 ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:15 pm

BrisketBoss wrote:

It's when poop leaks from the diaper.

You missed out, all the way up until the neck!

↑ BrisketBoss

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:27 pm

Busybee5 wrote:

You missed out, all the way up until the neck!

Sometimes lol. That's the worst.

By the way, it has recently come to my attention that some people still don't know this: the stretchy necks or snap closures on modern day baby shirts and onesies (bodysuits) are not just to help them fit over the head easily. They also make it possible to pull the garment down to remove in case of disaster.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:36 pm

amother Apricot wrote:

Oh how I remember many years ago, when my brother decided to bounce my baby on his lap, and baby had a blowout diaper, and wasn't wearing anything else but a diaper, to perhaps contain it... Bounce

Oy!!! Poor guy.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:38 pm

amother Goldenrod wrote:

You're right, I should really check with my local BHLD (Bais Hadracha L’inyanei Diapers). I’m sure I’m not the only lady with this shaila!

amother

↑ OP ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:39 pm

amother Goldenrod wrote:

Therapy’s a great option! But I’d have to find someone well-versed in Freud, if you know what I mean…🤪

DreamerForever ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:40 pm

Seriously though, it doesn't always help to go up a size! Sometimes it's the volume (ahem) of the disaster, or the position of the baby that means that even a complete straightjacket nappy won't contain it.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:40 pm

BrisketBoss wrote:

It's when poop leaks from the diaper.

This. Although sometimes the, ah, diaper contents emerge a lot more…enthusiastically than a mere leak would.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:42 pm

Busybee5 wrote:

You missed out, all the way up until the neck!

Oh no!! Now THAT would be a major indicator of needing therapy. DC’s blowouts thankfully have only managed to stain (and odorize) the lower half of his garments and some of his bedding.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:43 pm

DreamerForever wrote:

Oh no. So what’s a mom to do(o)?

Hiding

↑ Busybee5 ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:46 pm

BrisketBoss wrote:

Right! I learned of this just before having my 5th and last Confused

↑ DreamerForever ↓

Tue, Jun 20 2023, 3:46 pm

amother OP wrote:

Oh no. So what’s a mom to do(o)?

Hiding

Steer clear of pessimists like me, and try!

Perhaps your prodigy will be one of the success stories Angel