I'm asking because... (s/o shidduch questions)

↑ tweety1

Sun, Jan 22 2023, 10:18 am

newinbp wrote:

Asking because this is for sure genetic and not a wanted trait in the family. Does he have a history of thumb sucking?

Thumb sucking? This is definitely genetic. Do you know that I have a sil that still socks her thumb? Doesn't matter that she's only 2 years old. This is a serious genetic issue.

↑ Tof Umachol ↓

Sun, Jan 22 2023, 10:19 am

newinbp wrote:

Does he have a history of thumb sucking?

I'm asking because my daughter still sucks her thumb and if he does too, they'll look so cute together. The perfect match ...

Does she use hand cream regularly?

↑ simcha4 ↓

Mon, Jan 30 2023, 10:23 am

Tof Umachol wrote:

I'm asking because my daughter still sucks her thumb and if he does too, they'll look so cute together. The perfect match ...

Does she use hand cream regularly?

I'm asking, because in our family chapped hands of a woman is a sign that she is a balebusta. If she uses hand cream then we can't tell if she is or not.

Does she put on her shoes and tie the laces according to halacha?

↑ Tof Umachol ↓

Wed, Feb 01 2023, 12:43 am

simcha4 wrote:

Does she put on her shoes and tie the laces according to halacha?

I'm asking because my son is very machmir and so worried about getting it wrong that he just goes barefoot most of the time. Perhaps she could teach him.

Does she prefer silver jewelry or gold?

schoolbus ↓

Wed, Feb 01 2023, 11:31 am

I’m asking because I have a gold bracelet in my house to give her
Does she usually wear a high or a low pony?

↑ Tof Umachol ↓

Sun, Feb 05 2023, 7:17 am

schoolbus wrote:

Does she usually wear a high or a low pony?

I'm asking because studies have shown that a high pony pulled tight across your head affects your cognitive abilities and reasoning skills.

Does she put celery in her salads?

↑ GLUE ↓

Sun, Feb 05 2023, 6:47 pm

Tof Umachol wrote:

I'm asking because studies have shown that a high pony pulled tight across your head affects your cognitive abilities and reasoning skills.

Does she put celery in her salads?

I am asking because son has a phobia about having celery strands stuck in his teeth.

Does she were nail polish?

mfb

Sun, Feb 05 2023, 6:50 pm

I’m asking because my son is sensory and the feel of nails gives him the chills so he would prefer someone who wears nail polish since that feels better.
Does he daven with an early shacharis minyan in yeshiva?

keeptrying

Sun, Feb 05 2023, 6:51 pm

I’m asking because I want an eidal kneidal daughter in law.
Is she the type that is very studious?

↑ simcha4 ↓

Mon, Feb 06 2023, 3:44 pm

bella613 wrote:

I’m asking because I want an eidal kneidal daughter in law.
Is she the type that is very studious?

If you want an eidel kneidal d-I-l, you have to respond to her ability for making puffy kneidlach and not ones hard as a rock, otherwise she's an eidel meidel Smile

I hope you don't mind my comment.

↑ simcha4 ↓

Mon, Feb 06 2023, 3:48 pm

bella613 wrote:

I’m asking because I want an eidal kneidal daughter in law.
Is she the type that is very studious?

I'm asking because my son does not want anyone competing with his learning.

Will she agree that we buy a mouse trap for the couple as an engagement gift?

↑ schoolbus ↓

Mon, Feb 06 2023, 4:17 pm

I’m asking because my other daughter in law said she wished she had gotten a mouse trap as a gift
Does she wear long lasting lipstick daily?

polka dots

Mon, Feb 06 2023, 4:22 pm

schoolbus wrote:

I’m asking because my other daughter in law said she wished she had gotten a mouse trap as a gift
Does she wear long lasting lipstick daily?

I'm asking because regular lipstick is a lack in tznius. Everyone can tell if you were kissed or not that day. The long lasting just lasts all day regardless.

Does she like eggsalad?

↑ Mermaidinexile ↓

Mon, Feb 06 2023, 4:25 pm

polka dots wrote:

I'm asking because regular lipstick is a lack in tznius. Everyone can tell if you were kissed or not that day. The long lasting just lasts all day regardless.

Does she like eggsalad?

I'm asking because he has a dozen pet chickens and we are very makpid on bal tashchis.

Does she use ball point pens or felt tipped?

↑ simcha4 ↓

Mon, Feb 06 2023, 4:30 pm

schoolbus wrote:

I’m asking because my other daughter in law said she wished she had gotten a mouse trap as a gift
Does she wear long lasting lipstick daily?

I'm asking because lipstick, all day and all night, every day, is a must in our family!

Will she agree that we buy her only 9 sheitels instead of the required 10?

realtalk

Mon, Feb 06 2023, 4:30 pm

Mermaidinexile wrote:

I'm asking because he has a dozen pet chickens and we are very makpid on bal tashchis.

Does she use ball point pens or felt tipped?

I’m asking because I still use my monogrammed felt tipped pen from my wedding and I expect the same from my children.

Does she ask opinions from her mother, her sisters, or friends while shopping?

↑ simcha4 ↓

Mon, Feb 06 2023, 4:39 pm

realtalk wrote:

I’m asking because I still use my monogrammed felt tipped pen from my wedding and I expect the same from my children.

Does she ask opinions from her mother, her sisters, or friends while shopping?

I'm asking because a fixed rule in our family is that when a family member wants to purchase something, she first has to ask the opinions re the purchase from 10 people she is close to, starting with our Great-Great Aunt twice removed.

Does she wear full frames glasses?

↑ Tof Umachol ↓

Mon, Feb 06 2023, 11:03 pm

simcha4 wrote:

Does she wear full frames glasses?

I'm asking because full frames are much more tznius than half frames. Not to mention contact lenses, which are totally unacceptable, of course.

What is the precise length of her eyelashes?

↑ Mimisimi

Mon, Feb 06 2023, 11:34 pm

Tof Umachol wrote:

I'm asking because full frames are much more tznius than half frames. Not to mention contact lenses, which are totally unacceptable, of course.

What is the precise length of her eyelashes?

I'm asking cause ALL my other einiklich have pretty long eyelashes and this son, his kids have to be drop dead beauties.

Is she top heavy? May I ask around what size bra she wears?

↑ newinbp ↓

Tue, Feb 07 2023, 5:47 am

(I can't believe anyone would ever ask such an intrusive question! I know this is in jest but omg)

I'm asking because all the other daughter in laws are a pitzy size AA and share tops all the time and I don't want her to feel left out.

On vacation will she wear flip flops on the sand or stick to wearing tights/hosiery?