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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 11:47 am
amother [ Charcoal ] wrote: | That wasn't me. That was another poster. |
Changed it to jade
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amother
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 11:48 am
#BestBubby wrote: | You are being disingenuous.
You know any mental health professional who publicly states "a man cannot become a woman" would lose their license.
Same with any mental health professional who supported conversion therapy. So RCA based their decision against Conversion Therapy based on mental health professionals who are FORBIDDEN from supporting Conversion Therapy!!! |
I do not know that - never looked into it. This is a state by state issue anyway. So I can't imagine there is a common answer.
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amother
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 11:49 am
amother [ Jade ] wrote: | Excuse me?!
My child is a teenager and isn’t holding us “hostage”. She survived a suicide attempt and I hope you never know what that’s like.
If you have an autistic child you’ll also know that every child on the spectrum is different. What works for you doesn’t work for everyone.
We’re very happy with our team of supportive professionals, thank you very much. |
In my field I see this every day. Your child, no matter how much she tries, will never be able to escape a biological reality, no matter how many hormones and surgeries she undergoes. You’re tying her psychological health to the ability to fundamentally alter who they are. . If you tie her feelings of self-worth with the ability to fundamentally change what she was born with, you will never allow her to live a psychologically sound life.
I’ve seen lots of “supportive professionals” get it wrong. If you want to treat the suicidal ideation, teach her DBT skills. Teach resilience. Playing dress up can maintain equilibrium only for so long, you’re just kicking the can down the road.
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amother
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 11:51 am
amother [ OP ] wrote: | In choosing to waste time on the internet, you chose THIS thread, and THIS position on the thread. It's telling. Or are you saying you misrepresented your beliefs just for entertainment? |
Yup I choose this thread. What is it telling?
The only statement I made was that conversion therapy was banned because its dangerous and ineffective.
I stand by that.
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amother
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 11:52 am
amother [ Caramel ] wrote: | In my field I see this every day. Your child, no matter how much she tries, will never be able to escape a biological reality, no matter how many hormones and surgeries she undergoes. You’re tying her psychological health to the ability to fundamentally alter who they are. . If you tie her feelings of self-worth with the ability to fundamentally change what she was born with, you will never allow her to live a psychologically sound life.
I’ve seen lots of “supportive professionals” get it wrong. If you want to treat the suicidal ideation, teach her DBT skills. Teach resilience. Playing dress up can maintain equilibrium only for so long, you’re just kicking the can down the road. |
Nobody says you can’t teach DBT and resilience and ALSO support your child as they’re trying to figure things out.
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amother
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 11:55 am
BrisketBoss wrote: | I'm not sure you know what eschewing means.
Ah--perhaps 'espousing' is what you were going for. |
Got me. Thanks.
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 11:56 am
amother [ Charcoal ] wrote: | Yup I choose this thread. What is it telling?
The only statement I made was that conversion therapy was banned because its dangerous and ineffective.
I stand by that. |
And I just PROVED to you that the opinion of mental health professionals that
"conversion therapy is dangerous and ineffective" is BOGUS - because mental health
professionals are Not Free To Express Their REAL Opinions - they must repeat whatever
is the opinion of the Leftists!
And the Proof of that, is no Mental Health Professional can Publicly say
that "A Man cannot become a Woman" and not lose their license.
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 11:58 am
amother [ Jade ] wrote: | Nobody says you can’t teach DBT and resilience and ALSO support your child as they’re trying to figure things out. |
Actually what you just described is called "watch and wait" which is illegal in 24 states - they only allow gender affirming therapy which is basically just a heartbeat away from hormone blockers, then cross sx hormones, then surgery.
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amother
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 11:59 am
#BestBubby wrote: | And I just PROVED to you that the opinion of mental health professionals that
"conversion therapy is dangerous and ineffective" is BOGUS - because mental health
professionals are Not Free To Express Their REAL Opinions - they must repeat whatever
is the opinion of the Leftists!
And the Proof of that, is no Mental Health Professional can Publicly say
that "A Man cannot become a Woman" and not lose their license. |
You didn't prove that at all.
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amother
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 12:03 pm
amother [ Jade ] wrote: | Nobody says you can’t teach DBT and resilience and ALSO support your child as they’re trying to figure things out. |
Clearly you agree with the trans movement, and you dismiss any discussion questioning it, despite there being absolutely no evidence-based studies showing that this modality provides excellent clinical outcomes for those on the spectrum.
You’ve set yourself on this path, not knowing the outcome. Would you recommend this path to others? Do you believe this is the only way?
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 12:04 pm
amother [ Charcoal ] wrote: | Based on consultation with a wide range of mental health experts and therapists who informed us of the lack of scientifically rigorous studies that support the effectiveness of therapies to change s-xual orientation, a review of literature written by experts and major medical and mental health organizations, and based upon reports of the negative and, at times, deleterious consequences to clients of some of the interventions endorsed by JONAH, the Rabbinical Council of America decided in 2011, as part of an overall statement on the Jewish attitude towards homosexuality, to withdraw its original letter referencing JONAH. |
amother [ Charcoal ] wrote: |
The bolded was why I brought in the article - because you challenged me on the effectiveness of Conversion Therapy. |
All the bolded says is that there aren't any rigorous studies proving that conversion therapy
works.
But that is NOT proof that conversion therapy does not work!!!
Are you aware of the SCIENTIFIC PRINCIPLE:
"The absence of Evidence is Not Evidence of absence"?
It is very expensive to make a scientific study. that does not mean something is not effective.
There are no scientific studies that mango is healthy. That does not prove that mango is
UNHEALTHY!
Should the government FORBID the sale of mango just because there are no scientific studies
saying that mango is healthy???
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amother
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 12:09 pm
#BestBubby wrote: | All the bolded says is that there aren't any rigorous studies proving that conversion therapy
works.
But that is NOT proof that conversion therapy does not work!!!
Are you aware of the SCIENTIFIC PRINCIPLE:
"The absence of Evidence is Not Evidence of absence"?
It is very expensive to make a scientific study. that does not mean something is not effective.
There are no scientific studies that mango is healthy. That does not prove that mango is
UNHEALTHY!
Should the government FORBID the sale of mango just because there are no scientific studies
saying that mango is healthy??? |
I'm not throwing around the word "proof", you are.
Quote: | a review of literature written by experts and major medical and mental health organizations, and based upon reports of the negative and, at times, deleterious consequences to clients of some of the interventions endorsed by JONAH |
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 12:11 pm
amother [ Charcoal ] wrote: | You didn't prove that at all. |
OK here is PROOF that a mental health proffessional is threatened with losing her
license for opposing Trans Agenda for Children:
From Newsweek (a mainstream news source): https://www.newsweek.com/schoo.....10234
Identifying herself as a Milwaukee elementary school counselor, Darlingh said over her "dead f**king body will my students be exposed to the harms of gender identify ideology." Darlingh said her life's purpose is to serve and protect children, and that she would not allow any of her students to transition socially or medically.
A week after the event, the state Department of Public Instruction sent Darlingh a letter saying it had opened an investigation into whether proceedings would begin to revoke her license over allegations of "immoral conduct." The letter, obtained by WILL, said a community member had informed the department about her speech.
The department told Darlingh in the letter that she had the opportunity to respond or voluntarily give up her license.
Charcoal, will you now admit that Mental Health Professionals are NOT FREE to
oppose the Leftist Agenda or they will lose their license???
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 12:13 pm
#BestBubby wrote: | OK here is PROOF that a mental health proffessional is threatened with losing her
license for opposing Trans Agenda for Children:
From Newsweek (a mainstream news source): https://www.newsweek.com/schoo.....10234
Identifying herself as a Milwaukee elementary school counselor, Darlingh said over her "dead f**king body will my students be exposed to the harms of gender identify ideology." Darlingh said her life's purpose is to serve and protect children, and that she would not allow any of her students to transition socially or medically.
A week after the event, the state Department of Public Instruction sent Darlingh a letter saying it had opened an investigation into whether proceedings would begin to revoke her license over allegations of "immoral conduct." The letter, obtained by WILL, said a community member had informed the department about her speech.
The department told Darlingh in the letter that she had the opportunity to respond or voluntarily give up her license.
Charcoal, will you now admit that Mental Health Professionals are NOT FREE to
oppose the Leftist Agenda or they will lose their license??? |
I'm not admitting anything because again - I haven't looked into it.
I haven't made any comments at all about therapists, one way or the other (other than that I agree that regulatory bodies, not the government should be tasked with evaluating therapies).
And yah - if she wants to avoid a full fledged investigation - she can give up her license. That's basically how they all work.
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 12:16 pm
amother [ OP ] wrote: | Actually what you just described is called "watch and wait" which is illegal in 24 states - they only allow gender affirming therapy which is basically just a heartbeat away from hormone blockers, then cross sx hormones, then surgery. |
Not true
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 12:17 pm
amother [ Charcoal ] wrote: | Conversion therapy is illegal because its harmful and doesn't work. |
I'm not saying that conversion therapy is good. I'm saying that the exact same things people say about conversion therapy, can also be said about therapy that encourages people to change their physical bodies to match their mental reality. You can't argue both that people are vulnerable and sensitive to influence by their therapist, and also that they aren't.
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 12:18 pm
ora_43 wrote: | I'm not saying that conversion therapy is good. I'm saying that the exact same things people say about conversion therapy, can also be said about therapy that encourages people to change their physical bodies to match their mental reality. You can't argue both that people are vulnerable and sensitive to influence by their therapist, and also that they aren't. |
I agree with you. Thanks for the clarification.
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amother
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 12:19 pm
amother [ Caramel ] wrote: | Clearly you agree with the trans movement, and you dismiss any discussion questioning it, despite there being absolutely no evidence-based studies showing that this modality provides excellent clinical outcomes for those on the spectrum.
You’ve set yourself on this path, not knowing the outcome. Would you recommend this path to others? Do you believe this is the only way? |
Actually there are evidence- based studies showing this modality works. I’ve got them.
Any everyone needs to do what’s best for their child, I don’t think this is the only path. There’s never just one path.
ETA, I’m at work and can’t seem to find my file of studies on my phone but if you go to Pubmed you’ll find countless studies on Autism and transgender and treatment outcomes.
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 12:20 pm
amother [ Charcoal ] wrote: | a review of literature written by experts and major medical and mental health organizations, and based upon reports of the negative and, at times, deleterious consequences to clients of some of the interventions endorsed by JONAH] |
"Reports" by what PERCENT of conversion therapy clients??? It is Telling that it won't say.
So some clients are unhappy with their conversion therapy experience.
Well Many clients who were Encouraged by mental health professionals to Transition
are Unhappy!!!
There are "reports of negative and at times deleterious consequences to clients" who
underwent Transition Therapy.
Trans who transitioned have the highest suicide rate of any group!!!
So transition therapy is very, very harmful - causes suicide!
Charcoal, please explain to me why the Government is not Banning Transition Therapy!
Not only is Government not banning Transition Therapy where there are many reports
of clients who are had deleterious consequences, including highest suicide rate, Government
will REVOKE LICENSE of any mental health professional who speaks out against transition therapy!
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Wed, Jul 06 2022, 12:23 pm
amother [ Jade ] wrote: | Actually there are evidence- based studies showing this modality works. I’ve got them.
Any everyone needs to do what’s best for their child, I don’t think this is the only path. There’s never just one path. |
So you oppose that the government will revoke the parental rights of any parent
who opposes their children transitioning?
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