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Would you give a child a name that belongs to a relative's middle name?
Yes  
 63%  [ 24 ]
No  
 15%  [ 6 ]
Only if I was naming after another relative who happened to have the same name  
 21%  [ 8 ]
Total Votes : 38



amother
Cobalt  


 

Post Mon, Feb 13 2017, 7:24 pm
Would you give a baby a name that was a relative (parent or sibling)'s middle name? As a first name or as a middle name?
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amother
Crimson  


 

Post Mon, Feb 13 2017, 7:29 pm
Yes, especially if I like the relative.
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amother
Ginger  


 

Post Mon, Feb 13 2017, 7:33 pm
Of a sibling if I liked it not of a parent If the parent is still alive
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amother
Babypink


 

Post Mon, Feb 13 2017, 8:00 pm
Sibling yes, parent no.
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amother
  Crimson


 

Post Mon, Feb 13 2017, 8:04 pm
amother wrote:
Of a sibling if I liked it not of a parent If the parent is still alive

Right, the ashkenazi custom is not to name a child the same name as a live parent or grandparent.

Although I am ashkenazi I always thought naming for a live person was a lovely idea and with my mother's okay I am giving my next daughter her middle name and calling her by it.
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amother
  Cobalt


 

Post Mon, Feb 13 2017, 9:47 pm
Does it matter whether or not I'm naming after someone? For example naming him after dh's grandfather if my fathers middle name was the same, or something of the sort?
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amother
  Ginger


 

Post Mon, Feb 13 2017, 10:09 pm
amother wrote:
Right, the ashkenazi custom is not to name a child the same name as a live parent or grandparent.

Although I am ashkenazi I always thought naming for a live person was a lovely idea and with my mother's okay I am giving my next daughter her middle name and calling her by it.


If you are Ashkenazi I would defiantly ask a shaila before you do it. I wanted to use a name naming it after a relative and mom had same name never used it and I was told I can't.
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fiji




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Feb 14 2017, 2:16 am
I wouldn't for a parent's name and would ask a shaila for a siblings name
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shevi82




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Feb 14 2017, 3:11 am
amother wrote:
Does it matter whether or not I'm naming after someone? For example naming him after dh's grandfather if my fathers middle name was the same, or something of the sort?


Ask your father how he feels about it. Perhaps he rarely uses his middle name and will not mind.
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salt




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Feb 14 2017, 3:13 am
Parent no - customary not to, amongst ashkenaizim. Sibling yes.
What's the shaila - there are families where everyone's named after the same relatives so they all have the same names. It's done all the time. I know families with 25 Esti's and 30 Moishy's.
If anything, I'd ask the sibling themselves if they don't mind having their name re-used.
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