birth control after twins

↑ amother ↓

Wed, Nov 30 2011, 3:10 pm

im the "amother above"- I got a one year heter after my twins and was told to return if I need more time..I will definitely be returning to him when the year is up Smile

↑ amother

Tue, Dec 06 2011, 9:30 pm

amother wrote:

well unfortunately our rav gave just a little over a year. My dh is in school and so when he went to ask for how long he was told until 10 mnths before he finishes school- which I think is a little strange to answer!! - well basically my twins will be 2 when he's done school I"yh- so that leaves me stopping BC when theyre about 14-15 months!! I'm really not happy about it- but what can I do.
Every situation is different.

Isnt a heter based on how YOU are feeling physically, and mentally, and how you feel you can handle another child? why should this rav base his decision on when your husband finishes school? what does that have to do with anything?

Is there a possibility of you calling back and explaining that you feel you cant handle another child right now? Maybe he would extend your heter. sounds to me like this is the wrong rav to ask Sad