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chocolate moose  




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, May 26 2006, 5:43 pm
I have an older single woman coming for yomtov and I just want her to have a good time so I arranged several meals out for her.

Do you think it's like saying, oh, I want my privacy, don't eat all the meals with us?
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Tefila




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, May 26 2006, 7:08 pm
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Do you think it's like saying, oh, I want my privacy, don't eat all the meals with us?

And whats wrong with that as long as you r nice and have found nice people for her Confused
Though humbly speaking why don't you tactfully tell them when they see her in shul to invite her over. Rather then you having to tell her Tongue Out
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newmom




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, May 27 2006, 10:23 pm
Does the woman staying by you know you, or are you strangers?
I would not "send her out" for meals without calling her in advance and asking her first if she would like to go out and meet other people. Otherwise, she may feel like you don't really want her in your house and are trying to get rid of her, which clearly is not what you are trying to do.
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Tovah




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, May 27 2006, 10:50 pm
if I was that lady I wouldn't be comftable eating by ppl I don't know and rather hust hang out by u.
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southernbubby




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, May 27 2006, 10:59 pm
It might be very tiring to have the same guest at every meal, as far as your own family is concerned. If you can say that a friend wanted a guest so you wanted to see if she was willing to be shared, you might get away with it.
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  chocolate moose  




 
 
    
 

Post Sat, May 27 2006, 11:20 pm
lol, I am sending her places that she knows! friends from retreat!
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Motek  




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, May 28 2006, 9:33 am
SaraG wrote:
lol, I am sending her places that she knows! friends from retreat!


I think that's fine but you need to inform her or discuss it in advance.
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  chocolate moose




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, May 28 2006, 10:42 am
not only did I tell her when I invited her, I intend to make her a list.
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  Motek




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, May 28 2006, 6:23 pm
sounds great, you sound like a wonderful host!
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