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amother
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 Mon, Oct 26 2009, 4:48 pm
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I am used to bringing along a gift whenever I go to a simcha (vocht Nocht, Bar Mitzvah, Wedding if I stay for the meal ) but in my husbands family they dont believe in giving gifts. Do I take a gift to one of the above mentioned simchas?
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chocolate moose
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Mon, Oct 26 2009, 4:52 pm
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maybe they only give to close family.
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DefyGravity
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Mon, Oct 26 2009, 4:53 pm
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It's proper etiquette to give a gift when invited to a simcha such as bar mitzvah, wedding, wedding shower, etc. Provided you are invited for the full simcha and not just for dancing.
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amother
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Mon, Oct 26 2009, 5:36 pm
I also believe its proper etiquette but if the entire family doesnt believe in it?
I give approx $100-$180 cash present for a very close wedding like a sibling or neice or nephew but if they dont give and wont ever give ti my kids do I go with my belief or theirs?
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amother
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Mon, Oct 26 2009, 5:36 pm
I also believe its proper etiquette but if the entire family doesnt believe in it?
I give approx $100-$180 cash present for a very close wedding like a sibling or neice or nephew but if they dont give and wont ever give ti my kids do I go with my belief or theirs?
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CuteGirl613
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Mon, Oct 26 2009, 8:30 pm
I find it rude when people don't give gifts when they go to a Bar Mitzvah or wedding. It costs the host $$$ to feed you.
By our wedding alot of people did not give gifts from DH's side.
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