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canadamom




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Dec 18 2008, 8:41 pm
Would you take your child out of school early one day to give him some "mommy time"? My 7 year old has a long day of school and when he comes home I serve supper, they play a little and it's bedtime. It's always hectic in the house those hours and he doesn't get much attention (except when he misbehaves or is wild embarrassed ) So I'm debating if I should take him out of school early like once a month or more during secular studies in the afternoon and just spend some time me and him. Is this conveying the wrong message??? what would you do?
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Pineapple




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Dec 18 2008, 8:43 pm
Maybe play games with him shabbos afternoon
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mimivan  




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Dec 18 2008, 8:52 pm
canadamom wrote:
Would you take your child out of school early one day to give him some "mommy time"? My 7 year old has a long day of school and when he comes home I serve supper, they play a little and it's bedtime. It's always hectic in the house those hours and he doesn't get much attention (except when he misbehaves or is wild embarrassed ) So I'm debating if I should take him out of school early like once a month or more during secular studies in the afternoon and just spend some time me and him. Is this conveying the wrong message??? what would you do?


Yes. My chinuch teacher says this is a good idea.
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  mimivan




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Dec 18 2008, 8:55 pm
Pineapple wrote:
Maybe play games with him shabbos afternoon


This is also good, but I think the idea is to have private time, just with that kid. IF you don't want to take him out of school for a day, how about having dh watch the others or hire a babysitter and take the child out by himself once a month (we were thinking of doing that with all our kids bli neder, but I imagine with families much larger than ours, it may not be possible for every kid once a month)
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Happy Mom




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Dec 24 2008, 1:34 am
The principal of the school my kids used to go to did this, for her own kids who attended that same school. She was a mother of ten children who I had a lot of respect for; she called it a 'mental health day'.
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