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HealthCoach
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 Tue, Dec 09 2008, 2:22 pm
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I had a baby girl on November 16th. Since then every shabbos someone in our immediate family has a conflict. At this point our choices are shabbos chanukah December 27th or January 11th. I would like the kiddush to be closer to when she was born. Do you think Shabbos Chanukah is a good or bad shabbos to make a kiddush?
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manhattanmom
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Tue, Dec 09 2008, 7:48 pm
| Little Engine wrote: | | I had a baby girl on November 16th. Since then every shabbos someone in our immediate family has a conflict. At this point our choices are shabbos chanukah December 27th or January 11th. I would like the kiddush to be closer to when she was born. Do you think Shabbos Chanukah is a good or bad shabbos to make a kiddush? |
I can't think of why it would be a bad time--unless you're concerned about people being away because it is also a legal holiday weekend??
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Thu, Dec 11 2008, 9:39 pm
I think it's a bad time because people might be away or have guests. Anyone here going away or having guests that would prevent them from going to a kiddush?
In addition, my parents were supposed to have us and siblings over that shabbos. They said we could do it a different week instead. It's hard for me to tell if they mind a little. I think it's nice to have a kiddush on Chanukah, but not if it messes up the shabbos by my parents. I'm trying to do the right thing.
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avimom
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Sat, Dec 13 2008, 11:11 pm
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Why can't you make the kiddush while you are at your parents? Isn't the kiddush going to be in shul?? Either way, any mother with a baby can't go to the kiddush but if there are a few families together, they could take turns watching the kids and going...
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HealthCoach
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Sat, Dec 13 2008, 11:29 pm
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Thanks Avimom. It seems that some people we know are going away shabbos chanukah so it will be 2 weeks after. The plan is for the men to be in shul and have the kiddush for the women in our house. This will be the first time I go to my daughter's kiddush.
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