Men's fitted and versatile everyday dress pants

amother

OP ↓

Mon, Dec 30 2024, 9:08 am

Which fitted and versatile dress pants do your son's/husband wear?
I like when my husband wears very fitted pants and I don't either want to spend more than $30/pair. We have got the plaid and plain from Amazon in slim fit skinny fit but they are still too wide and not fitted enough lately.
Links and/or specific item names appreciated Smile

Dev80

Mon, Dec 30 2024, 11:13 am

My husband gets all of his pants tailored. It's hard for him to find the specific cut he needs, so he buys the correct waist size and then takes up the crotch if needed, tightens the legs, gets it shortened etc.
I don't think my husband can find pants he likes for $30 but perhaps if you already own the pants he can try getting them tailored?

amother

Grape

Mon, Dec 30 2024, 11:33 am

Im sorry but im stuck on your wording "I like"...
Are the fit of your husband's pants reallyvyour choice to make? Isnt he the one who has to wear them all day long? Does he decide how you dress?
Fyi tight fitted dress pants are often not very tznius or btamt and often dont look right after a wash or shabbos and yom tov with good food.
I hope you like the lower leg tight and not rhe whole pants. I really wouldn't appreciate my husband where tight fitted pants with all his privates shoeing as many do. Although its his choice and he definitely chooses not to do that

amother

Clematis

Mon, Dec 30 2024, 11:44 am

amother Grape wrote:

I’m sorry but that’s not your place to say. MYOB. She asked for links not opinions about her husband’s style. I’m sure her husband likes looking attractive to her as my husband does! You don’t ever think about what your husband likes when shopping or getting dressed?

OP, I’m following cuz I’m in the same boat! Skinny guys need fitted pants!

amother

↑ OP

Mon, Dec 30 2024, 12:55 pm

amother Grape wrote:

Firstly, I'm not referring to pants that are ultra tight fitting at the top. I'm referring to pans that are tailored and tapered yet still refined.

Secondly, I am entitled to have likes and dislikes about what my husband does. That does not mean that I am allowed to control him. For argument's sake, I actually checked with a very reputable kala teacher regarding this particular subject. I was told that it's perfectly okay to request from your spouse that they dress in a way that you are attracted to. My husband BH wants me to be attracted to him and it's not like I am forcing him to do something terribly difficult. There are certain things I believe are not my business. for example, which exercises he does and how often he works out or if he tans his body or if he does laser or shave. Not that I can't ever bring it up to him if I feel it is really getting in the way of me being attracted to him, but I know that it's putting him in a very uncomfortable position. Also I understand where you might be coming from like if you are in a crowd where Majority of the men dress in very baggy pants and That's the culturally accepted thing to do in your community. Then I get it. But in my circles and the community where I am from a large majority of the men take care of their looks and wear "fitted" pants.