Have you ever missed a sib/sib-il wedding?

yo'ma ↓

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 2:25 pm

I did! I missed 2 Crying

. Both a sis and bro got married when I was in my 8th and 9th month, this past pregnancy. I was very upset at the time, but I got over it Confused

ShakleeMom ↓

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 2:26 pm

Did you just hijack my thread http://imamother.com/forum/vie.....ight= ?!

↑ yo'ma ↓

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 2:30 pm

ShakleeMom wrote:

Did you just hijack my thread http://Imamother.com/forum/vie.....ight= ?!

not really. you reminded me that I wanted to post this some time ago.

↑ ShakleeMom

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 2:32 pm

to answer your question, I got over it the second I hung up the phone.

Chocoholic

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 2:33 pm

My bratty SIL hasn't got married yet.

↑ yo'ma ↓

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 2:36 pm

ShakleeMom wrote:

to answer your question, I got over it the second I hung up the phone.

I didn't, it was very important to me. The difference is, your il and my bro and sis.

mamacita

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 5:11 pm

We had no siblings at our wedding and I'm still a little peeved. We are the ones dragged across the planet to visit, attend simchas and what not with no reciprocation from either side's siblings. Not like I"m bitter about it or anything lol Smile

grrrr.

Raisin ↓

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 5:15 pm

I missed my brothers wedding, since I had a brand new baby and it was a loooooooong plane ride away. I'm still sad about it.

happyone

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 5:16 pm

My SIL got married a month after my father was niftar. I missed that one....

amother ↓

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 5:27 pm

I miss them all as nobody seems to be getting married.

bandcm

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 5:58 pm

My husband and I missed his brother~s wedding as it was on my due date and it was in Israel while we were in England. (the baby was born a week late though)

Yakira

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 6:04 pm

My family is small. ILs probably won't have Jewish weddings. I can't imagine missing a sibs wedding.

ClaRivka

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 6:25 pm

I had 3 sisterinlaws who were not at my wedding.
I am still upset abt it.

↑ yo'ma ↓

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 6:42 pm

Yakira wrote:

I can't imagine missing a sibs wedding.

It is hard.

soldat

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 6:47 pm

I missed 3 sil's weddings
couldn't afford to go w/ the kids, miss work etc. one was 2 weeks b/4 I was due, dh flew across the atlantic and stayed for 48 hours

↑ amother ↓

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 8:37 pm

We weren't invited when a bil married a non-jew. So we didn't go.

↑ amother ↓

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 9:20 pm

I have to ask this, but why would your parents make 2 weddings when they knew you couldn't come? Couldn't 1 have been a month or two earlier, & 1 could be a month or 2 later?

↑ yo'ma ↓

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 9:28 pm

amother wrote:

I have to ask this, but why would your parents make 2 weddings when they knew you couldn't come? Couldn't 1 have been a month or two earlier, & 1 could be a month or 2 later?

The weddings were 1 month apart and the choson and kallah wanted to get married. It couldn't have been earlier, just because. A month or 2 for a choson and kallah is a long time.

Pickle Lady

Wed, Sep 10 2008, 9:38 pm

My husband's only sibling his brother missed out wedding because he was denied a visa. They were both very sad about it. I am in the process of moving mountains to attend my only sibling's (my sister) wedding. Sometimes its just not what were are supposed to do. Thats life. As long as we try.

↑ amother ↓

Thu, Sep 11 2008, 1:09 am

No, but missed a parent's wedding twice.