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Yarzheit candle for 9/11



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ny21  




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 11 2006, 9:50 am
I am thinking about lighting a candle today - without a bracha
when the kids come home for school -

does any one know the jewish date for 9/11?

a orthodox shul in my area is going to have a program for
9/11
to it


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chocolate moose  




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 11 2006, 9:52 am
I don't even light for my father, muchless 9/11

whjere do you stop? pearl harbor? korea?

imean, there have been a lot of wars/tragedies.....
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Hashem_Yaazor




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 11 2006, 9:55 am
It was chaf gimmel elul.
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  ny21  




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 11 2006, 9:56 am
9 / 11

happened when my kids and I still remember that day
I think the school should do more!


the other events that you mention did not effect me personally
as 9/11


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  chocolate moose  




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 11 2006, 10:00 am
Since when is lighting a candle “about you”?
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  ny21  




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 11 2006, 10:07 am
I am lighting a candle on behalf of all the people who dies at the trade center
I read that between 400 and 500 jews were killed that day .
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timeout




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 11 2006, 10:18 am
momoftwins I think it's a good idea but my DH wouldn't so.....

Which shul is holding a program?

I wish my sons school would even aknowledge what happened today.
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brooklyn




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 11 2006, 10:54 am
SaraG wrote:
I don't even light for my father, .....


Why not?
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  chocolate moose




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 11 2006, 10:55 am
I never saw my parents doing it. It's not a halachah.
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supermom  




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 11 2006, 11:14 am
momoftwins wrote:
I read that between 400 and 500 jews were killed that day .


Crying Didn't know so many jews died that day.
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Esther01




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Sep 11 2006, 8:33 pm
one jew who died that day is my cousin's cousin. not too far for it to touch home... he was on the cell with his wife till the last second.... very very sad story... they said tehillim and them vidu together Crying Crying
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BeershevaBubby




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Sep 12 2006, 2:52 am
SaraG wrote:
I never saw my parents doing it. It's not a halachah.


So if it's not a matter of Halacha, why are you giving her such a difficult time?

She wants to light a candle? Light a candle. Do one on Yom haZikaron and Yom haShoah too if you like...
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IBR




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 13 2006, 6:38 am
Esther01 I heard of that story of a husband saying vidui on the phone with his wife. I m so sorry. I witnessed the whole thing especialy the second airplane going into the building. Here is a miracle story that happened to me. I was to get a job in the OU building which is not too far away from the trade center a few weeks before I didn't get the job cause another girl typed 2 words faster than me and I was told good bye. The next day I got a job at a boro park company. I was so mad for not getting the job at the OU job But HASHEM DOES EVERYTHING FOR THE BEST. One frum man was saved cause a meshulach came to him and asked for donation the guy had no money so they went downstairs to the bank machine and the plane went into the window one floor above that mans office they were both saved because of TZEDAKA.
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  supermom




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 13 2006, 10:47 am
Esther01 wrote:
one jew who died that day is my cousin's cousin. not too far for it to touch home... he was on the cell with his wife till the last second.... very very sad story... they said tehillim and them vidu together Crying Crying



Crying Crying How horrible Crying Crying She must have been freaking out the poor wife.
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  ny21




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 14 2006, 8:52 pm
thanks for the answers

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Ruchel




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Sep 15 2006, 2:27 am
SaraG wrote:
I never saw my parents doing it. It's not a halachah.


I've always wondered if it was a halacha. I've seen people doing very different things. Lighting for everyone including cousins in law, not lighting for anyone except rav, lighting on civil date...

What is the general custom? Parents and grandparents?
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