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amother

↑ Aqua

Tue, Oct 29 2024, 7:43 pm

Ok I'll say this again because I feel it should be said. You sound like an incredible, kind, self aware, thoughtful, and appreciative person. I want to wish you all the Brachot!

chocolate moose

Wed, Oct 30 2024, 7:20 pm

I had a friend with that same exact situation. they did not stay in contact but bh everyone got married and moved on.

amother

↑ OP

Wed, Oct 30 2024, 8:24 pm

Update, I did my own process, and I realized I took on the role of nurturer since she didn't have the support she needed, and stemming from my own attachment issues. That's why I was still worried about her and that why I had such connection to her. Now with new kallah I didn't set up such a relationship, since she has her own support system in place so therefore didn't get so attached either.

That's why I had the need, to show her that I'm happy for her and care. I didn't do it, because I knew it would be hard fir her, as she dealt with her own attachment issues.

Also for whoever was worried about me discussing with therapist, I was by her today and didn't discuss, because I did my own process, and had other things to discuss.

I had sent my therapist some messages and she agreed to my findings.