Toyamehu S/O | Imamother

amother

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 8:22 pm

This Friday is a fast day….will you still have toyamehu or skip it????

amother

Amaranthus

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 8:24 pm

My kids will need to eat, so yeah. They'll get their regular Friday foods.

amother

Stonewash

Yesterday at 5:56 am

Not sure what this question is…

The ones that are fasting will not, the ones that are not fasting will eat whatever they eat every Friday

amother

Springgreen ↓

Yesterday at 7:37 am

Those of us who serve toyameyu also keep halacha.
All men over 13 in our house will be fasting until after Kiddush.
It is a fast day!!!

flowerpower ↓

Yesterday at 7:40 am

I make food for shabbos and some gets eaten on Friday. Nothing changes this week. The none fasters will still eat and the fasters will eat it Friday night☺️

amother

DarkOrange

Yesterday at 9:02 am

amother Springgreen wrote:

Those of us who serve toyameyu also keep halacha.
All men over 13 in our house will be fasting until after Kiddush.
It is a fast day!!!

Im sorry.
I hate to be that person.

But halacha clearly states that all men over 13 AND ALL WOMEN OVER 12.
An exception is made for sick people, pregnant and nursing women.
But the standard is that women fast according to the Shulchan Aruch and Mishna Brura

amother

↑ Springgreen

Yesterday at 9:05 am

amother DarkOrange wrote:

Ok litvak ! Said with love

Fry no girls over 12 besides me in house . So im only one for you to pick on and you dont know my status in life....

amother

Iris

Yesterday at 9:06 am

I don't do full-fledged toameha but I usually serve kugel on Friday afternoon. I don't do that on a fast day. It's a "delicacy" type food that's special for Shabbos and Yom Tov (and erev Shabbos and Yom Tov) and I don't give those types of foods to even my non-fasting children on sad fast days.

They can have rice cakes or fruit or vegetables if they're hungry after lunch before the seudah.

↑ flowerpower

Yesterday at 2:23 pm

amother DarkOrange wrote:

Again, think outside the box. Be openminded my dear.

amother

Mulberry

Yesterday at 3:25 pm

amother OP wrote:

This Friday is a fast day….will you still have toyamehu or skip it????

I'm amother strawberry from that thread. No toyamehu this week and I will be fasting.

amother

Lotus

Yesterday at 4:33 pm

Just checking if chasidim also follow halacha?

amother

Blueberry

Yesterday at 4:37 pm

amother Lotus wrote:

Just checking if chasidim also follow halacha?

No. They barely keep the torah. All they do is shukel at the rebbe's tisch and eat kugel.

familyfirst

Yesterday at 5:15 pm

amother Lotus wrote:

Just checking if chasidim also follow halacha?

Rude comment and unnecessary

Why would you even go down that path?

Considering that we are commemorating one of the stages in the process of the Churban (due to sinas Chinam), this comment seems to be particulary in poor taste.

We can do better. Be nice