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amother
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 Sat, Jan 04 2025, 8:37 pm
Did we? If you can link it I’m happy to look. I couldn’t find anything in search but it’s hard to find threads without knowing the title
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amother
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Sat, Jan 04 2025, 8:44 pm
| abound wrote: | I did at age 9-12. it was fine.
Dont look at the marital status but at the type.
How abt if they go to a kid whose parents are married and the mom goes out leaving the father in charge, wouldthat be a problem? |
That was part of my post too. I don’t think I would feel comfortable with that unless it was someone we knew very well. I also picked her up when the babysitter left her husband in charge one day and don’t let her sleep at my mother’s when her partner is in town.
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AlwaysGrateful
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Sat, Jan 04 2025, 8:55 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | That was part of my post too. I don’t think I would feel comfortable with that unless it was someone we knew very well. I also picked her up when the babysitter left her husband in charge one day and don’t let her sleep at my mother’s when her partner is in town. |
Do you trust your own husband with her?
It seems like you don't trust men. I'm sorry. I can't live my life like that. There's a certain amount of hishtadlus that we do in order to keep our children safe. But this doesn't seem like a healthy amount of hishtadlus. In my opinion...
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amother
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Sat, Jan 04 2025, 8:58 pm
I’m young so maybe I’m too naive but there’s so many awesome involved dads why would I think that him being a single dad makes him a bad father or person
I would be more comfortable leaving by a single dad that I know than a married couple that I barely know the mom or the dad
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amother
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Sat, Jan 04 2025, 9:07 pm
| AlwaysGrateful wrote: | Do you trust your own husband with her?
It seems like you don't trust men. I'm sorry. I can't live my life like that. There's a certain amount of hishtadlus that we do in order to keep our children safe. But this doesn't seem like a healthy amount of hishtadlus. In my opinion... |
I don’t trust men I don’t know very well or who have unsupervised access to her. I like to think I know my husband as well as I know anyone.
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