Did you experience a Chanukah neis?

amother

OP ↓

Yesterday at 1:11 pm

Title says it all.
I need a neis. Iv been davening none stop, taking kabalos on myself, trying to be on best behaviour but clearly hashem is saying no . If this neis doesn’t happen within a week or two I will need to take drastic measures that might cost me 200k. A few ppl around me keep on telling me, daven for a neis Chanukah. I am so burnt out and resentful towards hashem. I wonder if it’s even true that people can experience such a thing. I wish he would just tell me what he wants me to do. I’m sick and tired of hoping and being disappointed. Iv been through so much in life and this is just the cherry on top. So, can you tell me if you PERSONALLY experienced a neis Chanukah above the teva? I don’t want to hear stories from the neighbor of your cousins mother in laws sisters grandmother. I mean first hand experience.

amother

Bone

Yesterday at 1:26 pm

I’m following because I’d like to know also

Are you able to go daven at the tzion of a rebbe or tzaddik? My teffilos have been answered (shidduchim, pregnancy, health) when I’ve went. I’ve always wrote a kvitel but also davened deeply.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Yesterday at 1:45 pm

amother Bone wrote:

Iv been to the Ohel a few times. My husband did Ukraine yot time. I wish I can hop on a plane to ey. But so far nothing has moved. I’m getting very cross messages and I’m just very confused which is making me angry and resentful.

amother

Hawthorn

Yesterday at 1:57 pm

I did!
On the last night on Chanuka I begged Hashem to finally enable my husband to give a get. The next year on the last night of Chanuka I had my get and I was introduced to my current husband 💕

amother

↑ OP ↓

Yesterday at 3:42 pm

My neis that I’m waiting for is me-al derech hateva. Like a pure neis. I’m so so burnt from begging and crying and davening. I give up!!!

naturalcurls

Yesterday at 3:43 pm

I met my dh on Chanukah and got pregnant for the first time on Chanukah I can’t say that it’s because of Chanukah but I can’t either say it’s a coincidence

amother

Dill

Yesterday at 4:23 pm

I was going through the worst time I’d ever experienced and looking back the yeshua started on chanuka Baruch HaShem even though I didn’t feel it till a few weeks later.

Rabbanit Yemima quotes a Rav who says to daven by the menora for 30 minutes every night and you will see a yeshua. I don’t remember who she is quoting.

Also put a request paper by the menora on Zos Chanuka.

I don’t know if a neis will happen for you or not but don’t give up yet - the time for miracles is just almost about to begin.

(Also I do recommend looking up Rabbanit Yemima’s Segulas for chanuka
And what to daven for each night).

I hope HaShem blesses you with a nes.

Remember Rabbi Rubashkin was released in the last minutes of chanuka.

amother

Calendula ↓

Yesterday at 4:36 pm

What nes are you hoping for op?
Just b/c you think it would be good for you , doesn’t mean Hashem agrees
He knows what’s best whether you agree or not. Or see the big picture. You don’t
It doesn’t matter how much you beg & plead

It doesn’t work that way

amother

↑ Calendula ↓

Yesterday at 4:38 pm

amother Dill wrote:

Where can we hear what rabanit yemima says to daven for each night?

amother

Lemonchiffon

Yesterday at 4:39 pm

I always try to remember Rubashkin nes chanukah. It was a miracle that is not derech hateva and was so unlikely to happen. But the only way it happened is because he believed and really believed that Hashem can do anything.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Yesterday at 4:42 pm

amother Calendula wrote:

I cannot disclose but I would have to come up with 200k, possibly more in a very short period of time. Clearly hashem wants me to go through the challenges just don’t know what he’s expecting from me and how am I ever going to finish paying all this off.

amother

↑ OP

Yesterday at 4:43 pm

amother Lemonchiffon wrote:

This is a very good point. Thank you

amother

↑ Calendula ↓

Yesterday at 4:48 pm

amother OP wrote:

Clearly He does
We are not hearing the whole thing.
Hatzlacha and hope you get what you need

amother

Wine ↓

Yesterday at 4:50 pm

Yes I had nes Chanukah. Went to see the lighting of koshnitza menorah. Long story how I actually found it but that’s not the point here.
When it was my chance to give kvittel I said what I was there for and the room with gabbaim fell silent, no one would meet my eye. Rabbi have a Bracha and we left. Within two weeks x sent messenger that he wants to give get.
Each year I called the gabbaim yo ask about the menorah, five years later I heard it’s back. Naturally I went and this time asked hashem to find zivug. Within the year I was engaged.

amother

Brown

Yesterday at 4:54 pm

amother Wine wrote:

Wow, amazing!
How could I do this too? I don't live nearby...