Tell me your personality and I'll guess your enneagram #

painting

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 5:28 pm

amother Oak wrote:

I’m stumped too! I can never figure it out.

Type of person who loves information and learning and achieving goals. Reliable, responsible, consistent, punctual. Will create goals just to meet them. Weight lifting is the best exercise because the goals constantly get higher. Wants to be excellent. Wants to self develop. Wants to be unique—but isn’t a creative or all that different from others. Deep feelings but unable to express them verbally like a 4 would. Not angsty or neurotic like a 4. Tends towards depressive. Introvert. Non-judgmental/accepting of all outer “types” as long as inside is striving and growth oriented. High personal standards. Hard on self. Not the type able to articulate inspirational speeches or shiurim but feels the spirituality deeply in a non verbal way. Playful and silly with kids. Likes rules and algorithms because they creat structure of the chaos of life. Writes poetry. Deepest desire: wants to be loved and nurtured unconditionally, and while achieving difficult goals, others know that is not why they are lovable.

Do you think this can be a 1 with a 4 and 7 wing?

I’m seeing a lot of myself in you.. and I’m a 1 with 4 and 7 wings.. so they do exist

amother

↑ Azalea

Mon, Nov 25 2024, 5:36 pm

painting wrote:

I’m seeing a lot of myself in you.. and I’m a 1 with 4 and 7 wings.. so they do exist

You wings have to be the numbers on either side of the ennegram number. You can't be a 1 with 4 and 7 wings. If you truly are a 1 your wings can only be 9 and 2. That's how the ennegram works.

amother

Magnolia

Tue, Nov 26 2024, 8:52 am

Love this thread, wonder if you can diagnose me... I've taken a few enneagram tests and came out with different numbers lol

- Good with numbers and words, love to read.
- Chilled, people pleaser, don't need to be in control, prefer to blend in and not stand out.
- Not competitive and not goal driven, but I'm competent and finish what needs to be done
- Hate dealing with strong emotions, and I try to defuse or deflect instead of being upfront when people upset me. I'll hold back from telling people what I really think to keep the peace.
- Have a few good friends and that's all I need, not socially anxious but I very much prefer to be alone. Seriously value my privacy.
- Crowds and loud noise irritate me
- Always on time
- Scheduled and organized, but I like adventure and always up for something spontaneous. I'll drop premade plans easily to try something new.
- Go with my gut, I don't need to think too deeply to make decisions. Was told I live with my heart and not my head.
- Creative in an analytical way, not artistic
- Not an aesthete, but I like to look good and put together as per societal norms
- I like learning new intellectual things, small talk bores me.

amother

↑ NeonOrange ↓

Sun, Dec 01 2024, 12:29 pm

amother NeonOrange wrote:

Non judgemental, enjoys learning topics that interest me, easily bored, people pleaser, caring, lazy, disorganized, likes children, dislikes most small talk, can talk at length about topics that interest me, logical, literal, not so in touch with emotions, likes nature, likes adventure even if things are going wrong... is that enough?

Anyone want to say mine? No one guessed it yet.

amother

↑ Green ↓

Sun, Dec 01 2024, 4:28 pm

amother Magnolia wrote:

At first glance you sound like a five

amother

↑ Green ↓

Sun, Dec 01 2024, 4:32 pm

amother Oak wrote:

What personality is this?
Brilliant and loves to learn
Straight as an arrow
Achiever/into hard work and triumph
Responsible/consistant/reliable
Deeply emotional and loving but not able to communicate it in words
Into self development but in a bit of a depressive/self destructive way
Introverted/socially shy
Hates being boxed into a “type” 😆

Married to a textbook 4

I think you're a one

amother

↑ Green ↓

Sun, Dec 01 2024, 4:35 pm

amother Slategray wrote:

I have ADD. I wanted to learn and work, be something great but learning was soo hard for me. I still cry that I am not a working Mom. Tried to make sure my children had clean laundry, meals. I was kinda checked out when it came to emotions. I am Not a cold person. I was overwhelmed even though DH helped in the home.

I think you're a nine

amother

↑ Green ↓

Sun, Dec 01 2024, 4:37 pm

amother Violet wrote:

I don’t enjoy talking without a purpose
I like spending time alone, traveling alone, walking alone, doing my own thing, etc
I’m calm during chaos
I’m decisive
I like physical activities and adventurous activities. Examples , biking in the rain, swimming in an ocean, running on a windy or stormy day, jumping from something high into water, strenuous hikes, mountain climbing, skiing.
I’m spotaneous, I don’t like planning things out, I’d rather live day by day and make decisions as things happen
I don’t need a lot to live. I’m not materialistic.
Independent. I don’t like relying on people or asking people for help.

You, I can't figure out so easily.
You might be a nine? Or possibly a four.
Part of this sounds like a seven, but the rest of it sounds like the opposite of a seven.

amother

Emerald

Sun, Dec 15 2024, 11:20 am

amother OP wrote:

Title says it all. Let's go

Loving
Needs a lot of love
Giving
Self conscious
Self hatred
Needs reassurance
Book smart
Fun loving
Emotional empathy

Note: I have a diagnosis of bpd. Not sure if that changes things....

amother

↑ NeonOrange ↓

Sun, Dec 15 2024, 11:38 am

amother Green wrote:

Seven

Cool, thanks! Can I still be a 7 if I'm "unhealthy" but not materialistic at all?
I know I'm on the less healthy side but I'm confused by the unhealthy 7 description and don't identify with it. I identify more with the healthy 7 description, but I'm not in that healthy state now... Can I be one number when healthy and another number when unhealthy?

amother

DarkKhaki

Sun, Dec 15 2024, 12:04 pm

I’ll go. I think about everything spatially and mathematically. I like to be busy every second because downtime makes me anxious. I’m introspective, self-aware, and confident in most areas except my appearance. I simultaneously enjoy and am terrified of socialising. Not materialistic but obsessively neat and clean. Dry, sarcastic sense of humour. My biggest strength is my ability to hold 2 truths at once: I can have strong opinions about someone’s choices and still feel empathy towards them. I am generally not confrontational and avoid conflict at all costs, but heaven help the person who messes with my kids.

amother

↑ Green ↓

Sun, Dec 15 2024, 12:09 pm

amother Emerald wrote:

Loving
Needs a lot of love
Giving
Self conscious
Self hatred
Needs reassurance
Book smart
Fun loving
Emotional empathy

Note: I have a diagnosis of bpd. Not sure if that changes things....

Either a 2 or a 4

amother

↑ Green ↓

Sun, Dec 15 2024, 12:09 pm

amother DarkKhaki wrote:

You're a 6, like me! Smile

amother

↑ Green ↓

Sun, Dec 15 2024, 12:11 pm

amother NeonOrange wrote:

Hmm, maybe you're a 9 then?

Why do you think you're unhealthy? You might be healthier than you think.

amother

↑ NeonOrange ↓

Sun, Dec 15 2024, 12:21 pm

amother Green wrote:

Hmm, maybe you're a 9 then?

Why do you think you're unhealthy? You might be healthier than you think.

I'm lazy, unproductive, mild anxiety, periodically mild depression, addicted to my phone, constantly feel unfulfilled, easily overwhelmed yet simultaneously understimulated...

amother

↑ Green ↓

Sun, Dec 15 2024, 12:24 pm

amother NeonOrange wrote:

I'm lazy, unproductive, mild anxiety, periodically mild depression, addicted to my phone, constantly feel unfulfilled, easily overwhelmed yet simultaneously understimulated...

Hmm... Maybe you're a 5?
I'll just throw all the numbers at you until one sticks LOL

amother

Razzmatazz ↓

Sun, Dec 15 2024, 12:30 pm

amother NeonOrange wrote:

You are a 9 with a 7 wing.
I have siblings like this.