Baby in your room | Imamother

amother

OP ↓

Yesterday at 9:13 pm

At what age do your baby sleep in your room?
So basically I have twins and 3 times a week I have night aide which they sleep in their room and rest of the week they sleep in my bedroom. They are now 17month kh and I love how they sleep in my room..
What's more healthier put them out already or its ok to leave them??

queen esther

Yesterday at 9:19 pm

I don't know about either being healthier, what would be wrong with them in your room? Other than eventually seeing things you don't want then to see and if they can talk, that can be awkward. But if you are enjoying being close to them, why not? I have a seven month old in my room BH and I do love being right there but I also miss my space and making noise freely at night, making it to a year feels like a stretch. But we'll see as time goes on.

amother

Ballota

Yesterday at 9:21 pm

You still need a night aide at 17 months?

I co-sleep so how I do things might look different. I move my kids out of my room when they are sleeping through the night most nights. That age depends on the child, usually well before age 2.

My first step is to get them into a crib in my room for the majority of the night, for my hardest that was doable by 15 months. Then over the months the night wakings tend to decrease until I'm okay putting them into another room. If it doesn't work I bring them back.

I don't remember what age I stopped co-sleeping with my twins, but they were some of my easiest kids (just hard because it was two of them).

amother

↑ OP ↓

Yesterday at 9:30 pm

If I need still a aide? No but really I can use extra help especially when they are not feeling well. This happens quite often unfortunately.

but when they feel good they bh sleep through the night..
Another point their bedroom is too far from mine so if they cry it's a big deal...

amother Ballota wrote:

amother

Hawthorn ↓

Yesterday at 10:01 pm

I move mine out at 6 months and they all sleep through the night once I do that. I find that none of us fall into a proper deep sleep in the same room. I need to move around and have space, and intimacy is better too with no kids.

amother

↑ Hawthorn

Yesterday at 10:01 pm

amother OP wrote:

Get a baby monitor

amother

↑ OP

Yesterday at 10:29 pm

So 3 times a week theyre not in my room all the imatacy is done than... place I have

quote="amother Hawthorn"]I move mine out at 6 months and they all sleep through the night once I do that. I find that none of us fall into a proper deep sleep in the same room. I need to move around and have space, and intimacy is better too with no kids.[/quote]