Tell me your personality and I'll guess your enneagram #

↑ daagahminayin

Today at 8:41 am

amother Glitter wrote:

What is that? What kind of readings do you do?

It’s another system that tells you about yourself in a lot of detail and gives you practical strategies for working with your energy. There’s a lot of resources online where you can learn about it. If you want to be walked through it and hear from a Jewish point of view, I’m a certified specialist and you can book a reading with me.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Today at 8:46 am

amother Oak wrote:

What personality is this?
Brilliant and loves to learn
Straight as an arrow
Achiever/into hard work and triumph
Responsible/consistant/reliable
Deeply emotional and loving but not able to communicate it in words
Into self development but in a bit of a depressive/self destructive way
Introverted/socially shy
Hates being boxed into a “type” 😆

Married to a textbook 4

I am stumped here. Can you share more?

amother

Violet ↓

Today at 9:38 am

I don’t enjoy talking without a purpose
I like spending time alone, traveling alone, walking alone, doing my own thing, etc
I’m calm during chaos
I’m decisive
I like physical activities and adventurous activities. Examples , biking in the rain, swimming in an ocean, running on a windy or stormy day, jumping from something high into water, strenuous hikes, mountain climbing, skiing.
I’m spotaneous, I don’t like planning things out, I’d rather live day by day and make decisions as things happen
I don’t need a lot to live. I’m not materialistic.
Independent. I don’t like relying on people or asking people for help.

amother

↑ Oak

Today at 10:16 am

amother OP wrote:

I am stumped here. Can you share more?

I’m stumped too! I can never figure it out.

Type of person who loves information and learning and achieving goals. Reliable, responsible, consistent, punctual. Will create goals just to meet them. Weight lifting is the best exercise because the goals constantly get higher. Wants to be excellent. Wants to self develop. Wants to be unique—but isn’t a creative or all that different from others. Deep feelings but unable to express them verbally like a 4 would. Not angsty or neurotic like a 4. Tends towards depressive. Introvert. Non-judgmental/accepting of all outer “types” as long as inside is striving and growth oriented. High personal standards. Hard on self. Not the type able to articulate inspirational speeches or shiurim but feels the spirituality deeply in a non verbal way. Playful and silly with kids. Likes rules and algorithms because they creat structure of the chaos of life. Writes poetry. Deepest desire: wants to be loved and nurtured unconditionally, and while achieving difficult goals, others know that is not why they are lovable.

Do you think this can be a 1 with a 4 and 7 wing?

amother

Slategray

Today at 10:27 am

I have ADD. I wanted to learn and work, be something great but learning was soo hard for me. I still cry that I am not a working Mom. Tried to make sure my children had clean laundry, meals. I was kinda checked out when it came to emotions. I am Not a cold person. I was overwhelmed even though DH helped in the home.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Today at 12:03 pm

amother Violet wrote:

amother

↑ OP

Today at 12:05 pm

amother Oak wrote:

You actually sound like a3

amother

Azalea ↓

Today at 1:14 pm

amother Oak wrote:

I'm thinking you are a 3 with a 4 wing.
The wings numbers have to be on either side of your ennegram number. So you can't be a 1 with a 4 wing. 1s can only be a 1 with a 9 wing or 3 wing. Most people have both wings and lean more towards one side in different situations.

amother

NeonOrange

Today at 1:21 pm

Non judgemental, enjoys learning topics that interest me, easily bored, people pleaser, caring, lazy, disorganized, likes children, dislikes most small talk, can talk at length about topics that interest me, logical, literal, not so in touch with emotions, likes nature, likes adventure even if things are going wrong... is that enough?

windchime

Today at 1:24 pm

amother Yellow wrote:

I’m also a 4 , so I’m gonna describe dh instead, since I’ve got no clue what he is.
Organized, black and white thinker, super rational, vies for justice, seeks truth, disciplined, doesn’t understand people who function differently than him. Puts the needs of others first and very frustrated with people who act selfishly. Introverted, witty with sense of humor. Good self esteem and doesn’t need approval from others.

Sounds like 1 with 2 wing

amother

Moccasin

Today at 1:52 pm

amother OP wrote:

Title says it all. Let's go

I am anxious, hard upbringing so maybe that's behind it but I have this need to feel wanted and connected to people and needed. I am intense and deep but wish to feel light and happier. I care too much about what people think about me, and feel a need for people to think only good about me. not interested in small talk. want to keep up with people but hate talking on the phone so it makes it difficult to be in touch with ppl. love traveling, need home to be organized and clean, can be very very loving and gentle with kids when I am not burnt out, wish to want to stay home and bake but hate staying home all day, constantly looking at how others live and wish to learn from them…low self esteem...

amother

↑ Azalea ↓

Today at 1:52 pm

amother Moccasin wrote:

You could be a 6

amother

↑ Hibiscus ↓

Today at 2:05 pm

amother Hibiscus wrote:

book smart, good memory
slightly introverted
creative, curious
like words and numbers
somehow both anxious and laid back
hard working
a little rigid
not opinionated
very easy to get along with, but hard to get to know well
messy with things, but organized with time

still hoping for a "diagnosis" Very Happy

amother

↑ Azalea

Today at 2:17 pm

amother Hibiscus wrote:

still hoping for a "diagnosis" Very Happy

You sound like you might be a 5.
Types 5s are very intellectual-they value knowledge and understanding the world deeply. 4s tend to be more introspective and enjoy solitude which helps them recharge to explore their thoughts. 5s are naturally curious and love exploring ideas in creative and sometimes unconventional ways. You are anxious but also laid back which might seem like a paradox- but can be coming from anxiety about feeling competent while appearing calm externally for others. Type 5s are very hard working and want to master whatever it is they are focused on. Type 5s tend to be observant and detached, often avoiding strong opinions unless they’re feeling very well-informed. Their non-confrontational nature makes them easy for others to agree with. Type 5 are very practically focused so while you may disregard the physical organization you might be good at managing priorities and schedules efficiently. Type 5s value privacy and only share personal details with those they deeply trust. Any type can be anxious but that might be your 6 wing.
Does any of this resonate with you ?

amother

↑ Hibiscus

Today at 2:31 pm

amother Azalea wrote:

could be.
I'm not worried about appearing competent or trying to appear calm for others. also not sure if I'd agree about "valuing privacy". but otherwise makes sense.

amother

Copper

Today at 4:10 pm

amother Antiquewhite wrote:

I'm a 3 too. Hi 👋

Are you top of your company yet? How amazing are you?

Fellow 3 here. That’s hilarious, I’m also at the top of my company!
As soon as OP started this thread I knew she was a 3, since when we do something, we need to do it ALL the way!!
We shld all hang out together

amother

Honeydew

Today at 4:39 pm

Booksmart - one of the top of the grade in school
Need to look put together (clothes and make up)
Very punctual, but struggle to be organized in the home (but the mess really bothers me)
Appreciate humour, and have a witty sense of humour that few people bring out
Love to read and imamother (been on here for years but rarely post)
Major people pleaser - cannot handle anyone being upset with me
Artistic - can draw, paint, photography etc, but not so creative
Struggle with self discipline eg going to bed on time
Like intellectual stimulation
Have few friends who really 'get me' - often feel lonely
Good at small talk, friendly
Hate being told what to do
Peacemaker - try to point out to ppl the other point of view
Loyal to friends
Practical
Detest injustice or favouritism
Hate going out my house - always have to decompress when I come home

Can you work me out? I can't!