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amother
Jasmine
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 Today at 5:35 pm
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I am sitting here in Eretz Yisroel with a War going on. We had close to 300 real rockets shot into Our beautiful country today from Lebanon. They reached the Center of our country. Bnei Brak. Petach Tikva, Pardes Chana, Rosh Ha'ayin Train station which is a nice size. I know what you are going through is also very important to you but please, Hold your little boy. Let him run around and play. Those shoes were adorable for a 4 year old. (If he was 7 I could hear you ask. If you live in a place like Belz or Visznitz also). I know you will all say this has nothing to do with that but to me it does. Let your little one be dressed like a 4 year old. He is gonna get dirty. let him be little and be happy.
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amother
Bluebell
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Today at 5:37 pm
I personally would not put it on for my 3 yr old son.
If you specifically don't wanna do loafers or slip ons I would go with a nice lace up. Gives more of a elegant look.
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gr82no
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Today at 5:43 pm
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These all look more like shoes for a first walker. Not so much for a four year old
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amother
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Today at 7:28 pm
The suede makes it look nicer. I would go with these.
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amother
Moccasin
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Today at 7:39 pm
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My 3.5 year old wore them last year for weekday and shabbos. More for shabbos when he wore Sneakers for weekday. They lasted. They were comfortable. Hello! 4 is still little. I don't see a problem. Now my son is almost 5 and he's in a 29 so into expensive shabbos shoes.
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amother
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Today at 7:45 pm
These responses are insane to me
OP these shoes are beautiful. All of them. They’d all be beautiful for Shabbos
My 4 year old wears similar Naturinos 7 days a week. A 4 year old boy who needs a new size every 3-4 months does NOT need shabbos shoes AND every day shoes. 2 pairs of shoes, 3-4 times a year (plus boots, plus watee shoes, plus crocs) is insane for a preschooler. We need to stop pretending that our preschooers are walking down fashion runways when in actuality they’re playing in playgrounds.
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amother
Oleander
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Today at 7:50 pm
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I definitely don't mean this to come across as rude, at all, I'm just expressing shock. People really have the money to spend $70 on a single pair of shoes for a child under 7? I can't imagine how I would manage having three small boys. I just buy from Target.
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amother
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Today at 8:12 pm
| amother Oleander wrote: | | I definitely don't mean this to come across as rude, at all, I'm just expressing shock. People really have the money to spend $70 on a single pair of shoes for a child under 7? I can't imagine how I would manage having three small boys. I just buy from Target. |
I only buy leather shoes for kids, otherwise their feet sweat & they're uncomfortable.
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amother
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Today at 8:21 pm
Definitely not frum style shabbos shoes but definitely if kid wore them on shabbos in winter nobody would blink an eye
....not for close family simcha though please
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amother
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Today at 8:27 pm
| amother Razzmatazz wrote: | These responses are insane to me
OP these shoes are beautiful. All of them. They’d all be beautiful for Shabbos
My 4 year old wears similar Naturinos 7 days a week. A 4 year old boy who needs a new size every 3-4 months does NOT need shabbos shoes AND every day shoes. 2 pairs of shoes, 3-4 times a year (plus boots, plus watee shoes, plus crocs) is insane for a preschooler. We need to stop pretending that our preschooers are walking down fashion runways when in actuality they’re playing in playgrounds. |
...many of us bh have simchos for older children. My younger children get their first pair of shabbos shoes when there is a family simcha... usually try to get something on sale 35-40 but not always possible
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flowerpower
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Today at 8:29 pm
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Zeebra shoes has a sale now
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amother
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Today at 8:32 pm
| amother Razzmatazz wrote: | These responses are insane to me
OP these shoes are beautiful. All of them. They’d all be beautiful for Shabbos
My 4 year old wears similar Naturinos 7 days a week. A 4 year old boy who needs a new size every 3-4 months does NOT need shabbos shoes AND every day shoes. 2 pairs of shoes, 3-4 times a year (plus boots, plus watee shoes, plus crocs) is insane for a preschooler. We need to stop pretending that our preschooers are walking down fashion runways when in actuality they’re playing in playgrounds. |
None of my kids went up a size 3-4 times a year at age 4, I don't think it's common at all.
They go up a size a year on average.
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amother
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Today at 8:51 pm
| amother Bluebonnet wrote: | None of my kids went up a size 3-4 times a year at age 4, I don't think it's common at all.
They go up a size a year on average. |
My kids must be atypical then. They always grow 3 sizes a year My just turned 4 year old wears a size 31 (for shoes we bought before RH) His last pair of shoes before that was in May and he was 29 then. My 9 year old is still growing 2 sizes a year
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amother
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Today at 8:53 pm
| amother Tangerine wrote: | | ...many of us bh have simchos for older children. My younger children get their first pair of shabbos shoes when there is a family simcha... usually try to get something on sale 35-40 but not always possible |
Ok and when did your older kids (who didn’t have older sibling simchas) get their first shabbos shoes?
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gr82no
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Today at 8:58 pm
| amother Razzmatazz wrote: | | Ok and when did your older kids (who didn’t have older sibling simchas) get their first shabbos shoes? |
Older kids have aunt/uncle weddings
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amother
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Today at 9:02 pm
| gr82no wrote: | | Older kids have aunt/uncle weddings |
Wow. Sounds like we live in 2 different universes.
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amother
Peachpuff
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Today at 9:03 pm
| amother Jasmine wrote: | | I am sitting here in Eretz Yisroel with a War going on. We had close to 300 real rockets shot into Our beautiful country today from Lebanon. They reached the Center of our country. Bnei Brak. Petach Tikva, Pardes Chana, Rosh Ha'ayin Train station which is a nice size. I know what you are going through is also very important to you but please, Hold your little boy. Let him run around and play. Those shoes were adorable for a 4 year old. (If he was 7 I could hear you ask. If you live in a place like Belz or Visznitz also). I know you will all say this has nothing to do with that but to me it does. Let your little one be dressed like a 4 year old. He is gonna get dirty. let him be little and be happy. |
Amen and stay safe.
OP, your son is 4, if those shoes work for him then they are perfect.
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