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Today at 12:43 am

amother Viola wrote:

I had a friend who was r@ped over the phone. She was single and super naive and a guy called her under the pretext of being a Shadchan and started asking her her br@ size and if she's ever oed before and basically talked her through touching herself down there. She got off the phone and was super creeped out and BH reached out for help..

So yeah, I believe that there are perves out there.

For those doubting the legitimacy of this post, I am posting under my name, as a long time poster. I wish this was made up, but unfortunately it wasn't.

↑ Busybee5

Today at 12:52 am

out-of-towner wrote:

For those doubting the legitimacy of this post, I am posting under my name, as a long time poster. I wish this was made up, but unfortunately it wasn't.

Of course it's possible, but she didn't have to engage! She could've put the phone down. She had phone s-x by the sounds of it.

Also posting under my screen name

Sorry I just read that she was super naive, there's your answer. It's not r@pe but s-xual abuse for sure. Yuck 🤮

Last edited by Busybee5 on Mon, Nov 18 2024, 1:00 am; edited 1 time in total

amother

Skyblue

Today at 12:56 am

Busybee5 wrote:

Of course it's possible, but she didn't have to engage! She could've put the phone down. She had phone s-x by the sounds of it.

Also posting under my screen name

It's easy to blame the victim. Don't judge anyone until you're in their shoes.
I'm one of those who never falls for any scam, until I was scammed.
אל תאמין בעצמך עד יום מותך

amother

↑ Amber

Today at 1:08 am

amother Skyblue wrote:

It's easy to blame the victim. Don't judge anyone until you're in their shoes.
I'm one of those who never falls for any scam, until I was scammed.
אל תאמין בעצמך עד יום מותך

OK I don't want to victim blame and hope I'm not doing that by asking the following question about the phone zex case. Is it possible that a frum girl of marriageable age and who is in the market for shidduchim has absolutely zero idea of what is considered tznius behavior? I mean they know about body covering and any type of intimacy having to do with the genitals being reserved for your future husband or do they not know that?

↑ Ruchi

Today at 1:44 am

amother Amber wrote:

Seems like very naive girls, can be easily carried away and swayed. Deep down they know it's wrong. But they just allow themselves, because their nature is not to resist.
I know a man once in my town did and made girls do horrendous things. It went on for a few years. He employed them as a cover up for his terrible misdeeds to them. All the girls were sheltered and naive. They complied.
If you are from Stamford Hill and old enough to remember, you will know what I'm talking about.

amother

↑ DarkCyan

Today at 1:47 am

out-of-towner wrote:

For those doubting the legitimacy of this post, I am posting under my name, as a long time poster. I wish this was made up, but unfortunately it wasn't.

Happened to me to over instagram tho.