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B'Syata D'Shmya
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 Mon, Sep 09 2024, 1:07 am
| Ruchel wrote: | There have been heterim for health, often going with goggles or taking off glasses for the male.
I'd go as parents and children.
Now, a group of people dressed tzniusdik, I'd allow if I trust the "mood". Especially cousins etc.
The beach? No way |
OMG, this is a slippery slope. A male cousin told me I could go swimming with him as I need it for my health. And he does too.
No. No. No. Even in a " tzanua" suit...
Since when do average healthy teenage boys need it for their health?
What mood would you trust? Your own? And if you see your son staring, are you gonna intervene?
Come on. These are fences.
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Ruchel
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Mon, Sep 09 2024, 3:24 am
I'd intervene if I saw one of my children staring, yes.
But the health stuff didn't mean for teens. I also don't mean a boy and a girl alone!
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Mon, Sep 09 2024, 3:54 am
| amother Peru wrote: | | I never heard that it says in the torah that boys and girls can't be in the same body of water (if the girl is tznius) can someone post where it says that? |
lol. So what about the ocean ? 😂
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frumommy
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Yesterday at 3:27 am
| rmbg wrote: | | Whats the difference how we feel? What does the halacha say? |
A good catchall Halacha is: "Kedoshim Tehiyu".
A person should ask themselves if they are trying to "get away with" something via loophole or if they're actually concerned about being halachic, if this is what Hashem would like best.
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