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amother
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 Thu, Aug 08 2024, 11:33 pm
My son is a counselor in camp but he is too young to drive so I take him both ways.
He has been going to camp for a few years.
When we first started without prior knowledge I was told I will be taking another counselor who does have a license but is dorming with relatives.
I don't know how it happened but they assumed that I will take everyday back and forth because I am going anyway.
Now my car had a little accident and needs to be fixed so I am without a car until it's fixed.
Could I ask this guy if he could arrange transportation for him and my son or is it my responsibility to do?
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amother
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Thu, Aug 08 2024, 11:38 pm
Of course you can ask! So nice of you!
Especially if you've been doing him the favor of driving him for the 2nd year in a row.
But he might not have a way to work it out...then what?
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amother
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Fri, Aug 09 2024, 12:26 am
| amother OP wrote: | My son is a counselor in camp but he is too young to drive so I take him both ways.
He has been going to camp for a few years.
When we first started without prior knowledge I was told I will be taking another counselor who does have a license but is dorming with relatives.
I don't know how it happened but they assumed that I will take everyday back and forth because I am going anyway.
Now my car had a little accident and needs to be fixed so I am without a car until it's fixed.
Could I ask this guy if he could arrange transportation for him and my son or is it my responsibility to do? |
What do you mean when you write that you were "told" you'll be taking another counselor???
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amother
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Fri, Aug 09 2024, 8:05 am
| amother Orange wrote: | | What do you mean when you write that you were "told" you'll be taking another counselor??? |
I don't really remember I think my son came home after the first day and said we are going to be taking this guy everyday. I don't think anyone called me.
This counselor is an adult.
He lives by relatives.
So my question is do I need to be responsible for getting a ride or could I put it on him who knows everyone to find a ride.
I don't think his relatives want to get involves but I don't think it is really fair to me to be the only one responsible for getting them there everyday.
I really don't mind doing bit but I'm just in a bind now and stuck without a car.
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amother
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Fri, Aug 09 2024, 8:17 am
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You are absolutely not responsible. And he owes you the favor ten times over. I’d definitely say the car is not available please arrange rides for my son too.
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