Who will win the #living in the smallest apt "game"?

amother

Carnation

Mon, Jul 15 2024, 8:35 am

amother Mocha wrote:

She has multiple children with ADHD, her children are punching holes in the walls and are clearly suffering, her living situation is obviously contributing to their dysfunction, her first priority needs to be to her living children and not the her hypothetical future children.

So you say number 6 was a mistake? What about number 5?

What's your point? You should put him up for adoption? It's just nasty to comment on it after the fact.

amother

↑ Mocha

Mon, Jul 15 2024, 8:43 am

amother Carnation wrote:

What's your point? You should put him up for adoption? It's just nasty to comment on it after the fact.

Maybe she will think twice about baby #7.

Maybe she will realize the seriousness of the impact her living situation is having and she will try new avenues to improve it.

I really do feel for the poster. I’m not blaming her for not having enough money to afford a bigger space and I’m not blaming her for having neurodivergent kids. These things can happen to anyone and she deserves sympathy and support. But I am pointing out something that is in her control, and that is not continuing to grow her large family when many of her children are suffering greatly.