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amother
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Wed, May 15 2024, 9:13 am
I think chaisdim give some sort of purse or evening bag to kallah. Not yeshivish lit fish or jpf
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amother
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Wed, May 15 2024, 9:15 am
In chassidish circles its a thing to give a gift lag baomer. Usually some sort of bag or a baby album from chosson.
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amother
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Wed, May 15 2024, 9:17 am
It’s a thing in the chassidish/heimish world. Not a must but it’s common. If there aren’t so many yomim tovim over the engagement then one of the jewelry pieces. Some mils will give an extra, I got a pocketbook
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amother
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Wed, May 15 2024, 1:01 pm
shachachti wrote: | If its a short engagement and you're looking for occasions to send the gifts then now is the time to send the crossbody etc. |
Now is the time to send THE crossbody? As in, a crossbody bag is already a thing and it has to be given during engagement so now is a good time?
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shachachti
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Wed, May 15 2024, 1:06 pm
amother Brickred wrote: | Now is the time to send THE crossbody? As in, a crossbody bag is already a thing and it has to be given during engagement so now is a good time? |
Yes if she's from those circles.
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amother
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Wed, May 15 2024, 1:13 pm
shachachti wrote: | Yes if she's from those circles. |
Ok, wow. The list of required gifts just keeps growing.
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amother
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Fri, May 17 2024, 1:25 am
Waxing gift card? Hair makeover ?
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zaq
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Fri, May 17 2024, 3:27 am
Because expectations are already over the top and people are going into hopeless debt to satisfy them. Let's not add yet another "obligation" over and above what is already inflated beyond reason.
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