Wearing Carter’s

amother

Feverfew

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 9:45 pm

amother OP wrote:

No dinosaurs. But stuff like this https://www.carters.com/oshkos......html
And this
https://www.carters.com/oshkos......html

100% fine to wear.
Carters stuff can be super needy so if you are particular them don't put them on. But the links you posted are basics.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 9:46 pm

Can’t return. Wasn’t given the receipt; I’m pretty sure the person got clothes for a few kids at once.

amother

↑ Lightgreen

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 9:48 pm

amother OP wrote:

Can’t return. Wasn’t given the receipt; I’m pretty sure the person got clothes for a few kids at once.

You can return to carters without a receipt afaik.

But the links you posted are fine. Not super stylish but not a major faux pas either.

And he's 3. He's allowed to wear words imo.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 9:48 pm

I’m not very picky. And to those of you saying I need new friends, I agree lol. Can you tell I’m from OOT? But I need friends here or I will go out of my mind. So I need to not be an outcast. I don’t mind not being the most in, I just wanted to know if it’s akin to like wearing clothes backwards. Will other people be like what is wrong with that mother.

giftedmom ↓

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 9:54 pm

IDK I live in Brooklyn and while my friends and acquaintances won’t be caught dead putting their toddlers in carters clothes they also don’t care one bit that I do. It’s a running joke between us. When dd got old enough to request specific brands I went around asking all these stylish ladies for a list of brands to buy.
It does depend on the clothing style and that goes for designer clothes as well. You can have 300$ clothes looking more socially off than a carters outfit if it’s too different from Frum style.

amother

Pewter ↓

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 10:00 pm

It's totally find for a 3 year old to wear. Kids that age do not know the difference. And all playgroups have a mix of clothing not only one type.

Funny story many years ago when my teen was a toddler I got an off white nice dress in childrens place for shabbos. She wore it on shabbos and the whole neighborhood complimented it and asked where I got it. You should have seen the look on their faces when I told them. They thought it was an expensive dress from a jewish store.

bsy ↓

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 10:01 pm

giftedmom wrote:

I live in Brooklyn. I don't know anyone who has an issue with such tshirts from Carter's. Maybe in pre1a for school, words are not acceptable. For anything else, totally fine.

amother

Melon ↓

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 10:01 pm

amother Anemone wrote:

boy clothes? I'd say that is probably okay. girls stuff I'd probably be a bit wary of style from carters

What are you saying? I got my daughter the cutest dress from carters!

amother

Bisque ↓

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 10:08 pm

The stuff u posted is fine. Pair with jeggings or shorts and cute sneakers.
As someone mentioned the girls stuff is more of an “issue”
The little planet line is good too. Not exactly frum style but very close and cute.

amother

↑ Bisque ↓

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 10:08 pm

amother Melon wrote:

What are you saying? I got my daughter the cutest dress from carters!

Do u live in Lakewood?

amother

Saddlebrown

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 10:11 pm

amother Bisque wrote:

the
Girls
Stuff for a 2/3 year old is totally fine!!

amother

Almond ↓

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 10:12 pm

amother OP wrote:

Your friends should respect you for who you are. Not for whether you dress your kid in their styles. If they are good, normal people, they wouldn't care less about how you dress your kids. Although the links you posted look pretty basic, so not really sure what kind of clothes we're comparing them to? What do 3 year old boys dress like in lakewood? Only neutral colors?

amother

↑ Pewter ↓

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 10:16 pm

amother Bisque wrote:

Do u live in Lakewood?

What's wrong with a carters dress in lakewood? You probably have no idea which ones are from carters I've seen plenty of kids wearing them.

anotherjap

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 10:19 pm

you all got me to look at Carter's! haven't checked it out in awhile! we would start a carterspicks.com site of clothing that can pass for the more expensive brands. I love Carter's prices!!!

amother

Periwinkle

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 10:20 pm

What a shallow and vapid [thing], that your children even know about clothing brands. With such a beautiful, expansive world out there and these are the priorities and values that you pass down. Yikes

amother

↑ Bisque

Sun, Apr 14 2024, 10:22 pm

amother Melon wrote:

Nope 5towns

Five towns is wayyy more chilled than Lakewood in this regard. I know pple don’t think that way about the five towns but it’s underrated very chilled and awesome!