BH my kids are cute or we would give them away!!

amother

Crystal

Fri, Mar 22 2024, 6:10 am

notshanarishona wrote:

This way of talking always bothers me and feels inappropriate even as a joke.
Kids can do annoying things, one if my kids dropped a bowl of boiling hot milchigs noodles into a fleishig drawer treifing up half our utensils, but I still wouldn’t talk like that. Kids can be frustrating, require a lot of patience, but al tiftach peh lasatan.

I always say if you see a super adorable/pretty baby/toddler, pity the mother!!!
My kids have done a lot more damage than that, they were just being kids. That doesn't make one want to pull their hair out or say what op said.
2 of My kids have adhd. (One medicated so she can be domesticated LOL

but it is by NO means a magic pill)

It's the daily grind of kids and the more challenging days that makes us say that. You should never understand.

And yes, I have often said, "good thing they are cute or I'd have given them up eons ago.

And yes. I also spend extra on their clothing and accessories and more sure they look just so. It's easier to parent a cute put together kid whos in an adhd sensory overload induced rage than the same kid in shlumpy clothing and crazy hair.

amother

Clear

Fri, Mar 22 2024, 7:06 am

everyone chill! its an expression and I hear it all the time.

I love my kids to pieces but when they make trouble and then look at me with their cute little faces I just melt.

so yes! its a good thing theyre so cute!! LOL

amother

↑ Tan

Fri, Mar 22 2024, 8:26 am

amother Lily wrote:

Yup... H' made our babies and toddlers cute so we'd keep them, and He made our teenagers be teenagers so we'd let them get married! (As heard from a big chinuch expert)

Good one!

amother

Holly

Fri, Mar 22 2024, 8:29 am

amother Lightgray wrote:

You can say you’re lucky your kids are cute.. but to add or we would give them away is just an ugly thing to say. Just my opinion

Agree. I say that all the time "It's a good thing they're cute" but that's the whole statement. I actually never heard anyone continue it the way OP did.
Also, not all kids are cute.