Home
Log in / Sign Up
    Private Messages   Rules   New User Guide   FAQ   Advertise   Contact Us  
Forum -> Parenting our children -> Our Challenging Children (gifted, ADHD, sensitive, defiant)
I've moved back the kitchen clock with seven minutes



Post new topic   Reply to topic View latest: 24h 48h 72h

amother
OP


 

Post Mon, Mar 04 2024, 5:12 pm
My dc 5 with pandas / maybe asd though I really don't want to admit / with rigidNess and black and white thinking is obsessed with his going to sleep 730 as his teacher's chart indicates. They don't get individually rewarded just a general class reward once a month but to him there is no way he can miss that. 731#Is the same as 931 it's a no no and an endless meltdown and deep painful crying its past 730. no reasoning explanation helps . We try to help him achieve his goal but he gets very carried away and is struggling to stay focused to his goal throughout. So we parents take the pressure to pressure him cause we'll her not the regular child and no he won't learn his lesson and we his family suffer from his pandas meltdowns so today as I was realizing 729 while my husband was helping him to finish quickly, that he's not going to make it, I sneaked into the kitchen and reset the clock to seven min earlier. Loved the outcome and that has been avoided. Plan as using this as a new tool when necessary. Ridiculous? Well my dc is acting quite ridiculous indeed.
Back to top

amother
Maroon


 

Post Mon, Mar 04 2024, 5:33 pm
Sounds good to me. For short term at least.
Back to top

amother
Quince


 

Post Mon, Mar 04 2024, 5:38 pm
As a mother of 2 kids with pandas, boy do I relate.
Back to top

amother
Peru


 

Post Mon, Mar 04 2024, 5:40 pm
I wonder if this could possibly work long-term? Can you get a broken watch or clock, set it to 7:30, and check it everyday right after he's in bed?
Back to top

amother
Mauve


 

Post Mon, Mar 04 2024, 5:41 pm
Not ridiculous at all
Just make sure everyone knows the clock is off and set alarms on your phone if necessary (go to bus, go do pickup etc)
Back to top

amother
Stonewash


 

Post Mon, Mar 04 2024, 5:42 pm
Not crazy at all, just make sure to set it to the right time before shabbos!
Back to top
Page 1 of 1 Recent Topics




Post new topic   Reply to topic    Forum -> Parenting our children -> Our Challenging Children (gifted, ADHD, sensitive, defiant)

Related Topics Replies Last Post
Kitchen Cabinet Baseboard 3 Thu, Nov 21 2024, 9:39 am View last post
Info on Atlantis Bahamas please if you've been
by amother
9 Wed, Nov 20 2024, 3:27 pm View last post
[ Poll ] Do you check your posts to see if they've been liked?
by amother
23 Wed, Nov 20 2024, 12:38 pm View last post
Back seat of car 1 Wed, Nov 20 2024, 8:18 am View last post
Recommendations for kitchen store
by amother
13 Wed, Nov 20 2024, 1:53 am View last post