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My son was bullied throughtout elementary school AMA



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amother
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 10:30 am
Ama
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 10:33 am
Did you know about it
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 10:33 am
What school did he go to
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amother
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:30 am
relaxation wrote:
Did you know about it


Yes I knew very well. I spoke to the principals and rabbeim/teachers but they didnt help too much. Crying
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amother
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:31 am
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What school did he go to


Im not going to answer this as it is loshon hara and no ones business.
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amother
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:32 am
amother OP wrote:
Yes I knew very well. I spoke to the principals and rabbeim/teachers but they didnt help too much. Crying
did you ever call the parents of the bully. (I did once and explained this then them toughly but respectfully)
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amother
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:35 am
amother Clover wrote:
did you ever call the parents of the bully. (I did once and explained this then them toughly but respectfully)


Yes I did a few times. In 1 or 2 instances the mothers did care and said they would speak to their sons. In other instances, the mothers said it was my sons fault or pls dont call me I cant get involved.
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amother
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:37 am
I learned the hard way that ure not supposed to call parents in these situations. They think theyre kids are "wonderful".

Now when I pass this mother on the street and she smiles at me , I give a half smile or no smile at all.

My son has turned a different direction( more to the left than we are) due to all the bullying😪 and being turned off from yeshivishness.
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amother
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:37 am
So sorry to hear. I am assuming it's not relevant anymore correct?
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amother
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:38 am
amother OP wrote:
I learned the hard way that ure not supposed to call parents in these situations. They think theyre kids are "wonderful".

Now when I pass this mother on the street and she smiles at me , I give a half smile or no smile at all.

My son has turned a different direction( more to the left than we are) due to all the bullying😪 and being turned off from yeshivishness.
I don't blame him at all.
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amother
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:38 am
The actual bullying, BH no. The lasting effects, yes.
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amother
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Post Fri, Oct 06 2023, 11:42 am
I did so much to help this child over the yrs, but I realized that if kids want to be mean, they will find something wrong with everything.
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