Give each other space, but love each other and stay best friends. We don't talk often, because we both have very busy lives and are not shmoozers, but we will do anything in the world for each other, and if either of us is in the mood to shmooze, we will!
Give each other space, but love each other and stay best friends. We don't talk often, because we both have very busy lives and are not shmoozers, but we will do anything in the world for each other, and if either of us is in the mood to shmooze, we will!
Tell me about something you like to do alone.
Laundry - the sorting out, and putting in machine part/ adding soap powder and softener. I'm careful with washing laundry and fold certain things before putting into the machine, to avoid them getting creased. I certainly don't dump a pile of laundry into the machine.
Tell me about something you like to do in private.
eg. I talk to Hashem when no-one can hear me.
or, I relish eating an ice-cream cone but only in the privacy of my room.
Just offering my humble opinion: I think posters should post the question they are responding to, otherwise it can get confusing, esp. if there is more than one answer to a Q.
I am not good at that at all. But one thing that helps is not yielding to the temptation to nap during the day. That totally destroys my night.
Tell me about celebrating your anniversary. How do you enjoy commemorating?
We drink a L'Chaim, give tzedakka and thank Hashem for His tremendous chesed of bringing us to this day, and daven for further happy, healthy years together.
Look at photos of our chasunah b'H and of our precious children when each one was born and their growing up years.
Fun - we recall funny things we did or said when we met when the shidduch was going on, and in our early years of marriage. And difficult things, in order to take note how Hashem Helped us through those times.
Sometimes we go to the Kosel or Kever Rachel.
One year we were in England around the time of our anniversary, on the day of our anniversary we went to the halls where our chuppah and chasunah were held and recalled lovely memories, b'H. It was a very profound moment.
Tell me how you look for and notice Hashem's "Hello, I'm with you, " messages to you.
Seek for the good, the chessed, the small kisses from Above that show us we are taken care of. Hashem knows what's best for us. Sometimes something seems bad but then we realize exactly why it was supposed to happen. Even when we don't understand, just trust in Him.
It's hard to be on a rigid schedule all the time. If you have some flexibility it's easier. Like don't say from 10-10.30 I'll sweep and from 10.30-11 I'll wash the dishwasher. Just say from 10-11 I'll clean.
Also schedule in breaks and self care. It's just as important as scrubbing the floor.
It's hard to be on a rigid schedule all the time. If you have some flexibility it's easier. Like don't say from 10-10.30 I'll sweep and from 10.30-11 I'll wash the dishwasher. Just say from 10-11 I'll clean.
Also schedule in breaks and self care. It's just as important as scrubbing the floor.
Tell me about pink.
Pink is a warm color. The color of love.
I remember the soft pink roses in our back garden when I was a child. I would inhale their sweet aroma.
I have pink Crocs.
My daughter's friend says that pink is a washed out red.
Even though I find the color pink to be beautiful, it is not my absolute favorite color, but also not a color I dislike. In between.
Algebra and Geometry are baruch Hashem things of the past!
I think I actually liked algebra at the time, though I don't miss it. Maybe I should brush up before my daughter gets to high school...
