Bleacher collapse | Imamother

amother

↑ Purple

Sun, May 16 2021, 1:51 pm

amother [ Bisque ] wrote:

PSA if your anxiety is this bad that you can’t handle the news you should probably not be on social media. We should only share good news but unfortunately the news is not always good and it’s ok to share. Gut Yom tov to all!

This is not social media. And when a poster posts that she can't hear this now, instead of right away replying "shame on you" STOP for a second and THINK!!! Think about WHY someone might be saying such a thing! Don't be so quick to be rude!! It's not a mitzvah! Try to be dan lkaf zchus and use some sensitivity!!

amother

↑ Black

Sun, May 16 2021, 1:51 pm

amother [ Purple ] wrote:

I really get you and understand you.
The poster that said shame on you is extremely insensitive and rude. She obviously doesn't get it.
I wish you a peaceful yom tov.

I wouldn't use those exact words. She was quick but I suspect she's seen too much stupidity over the last few weeks and I might have reacted similarly.

amother

↑ Scarlet ↓

Sun, May 16 2021, 1:51 pm

amother [ Cyan ] wrote:

Trigger Warning- An Arab Spokesperson from Ichud Hatzalah reports 2 dead R”L 10 critical.

Nooooooo!!!!! Hashem yerachem!!

amother

↑ Scarlet ↓

Sun, May 16 2021, 1:55 pm

amother [ Purple ] wrote:

You obviously have no experience with anxiety, thank Hashem for that.
We can all say tehillim without being so quick to post about it, without posting pictures & videos, and without sharing details. And instead of saying shame on you to a poster that can't handle this now, please let's have some sensitivity towards others.

Lol I actually do suffer from anxiety and am on meds for it.
Firstly, I didn't say shame on her. Secondly, I said nothing about graphic pics/videos. I personally don't open them and haven't seen the ones from Net in. I know I can't handle that. Thirdly, I was talking only about not opening triggering threads, which this one is easily recognizable as such, given the title and the section it's in. Or just read the OP and say tehillim, without scrolling down for more info and pics and videos.

amother

↑ Bisque ↓

Sun, May 16 2021, 1:57 pm

amother [ Purple ] wrote:

I didn’t and wouldn’t say shame on you.
I understand her and I’m not being sarcastic when I’m saying that those people probably shouldn’t be on this site. Also it says on the title tehilim needed, bleacher collapse. No need to click if too hard to read and definitely no need to be sarcastic if you did click.

amother

↑ Cyan ↓

Sun, May 16 2021, 1:59 pm

Can you stop with your private discussions here? Some people actually are worried and want real news.
Open a spin off if it’s that debateable if imamother should be catering specifically to people who have anxiety.

amother

Mauve

Sun, May 16 2021, 2:04 pm

amother [ Purple ] wrote:

Imamother is social media.

amother

↑ Bisque

Sun, May 16 2021, 2:04 pm

amother [ Cyan ] wrote:

Right. Does anyone have names yet?

professor

Sun, May 16 2021, 2:18 pm

I hope it's not the same terrible like Miron... Probably not.. it's just bleachers.... We can't even get any news for more than 2 days now because of yom tov

amother

↑ Scarlet ↓

Sun, May 16 2021, 2:36 pm

*TRAGIC UPDATE FROM STOLIN IN GIVAT ZE'EV:* Two people were R"L killed. Around 100 were injured, around 10 critically. This was the first time they were using this Bais Medrash, and they were celebrating a Chanukas Habayis when the bleachers collapsed.

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Didnt see any tehillim names yet.

amother

Blush

Sun, May 16 2021, 2:41 pm

With the bickering going on here, I feel like all the messages Hashem is sending is not enough?!?!
Meron, hamas rockets, now this and people are still fighting with sisters and brothers??
It’s ok to share, take a moment and think of your brothers ans pray for them.
If you feel that it is too hard on you, perhaps stay far from sites where you can’t know what type of news will pop up. I feel for you.

↑ doodlesmom

Sun, May 16 2021, 2:43 pm

amother [ Black ] wrote:

So glad I checked in again.
I will be very careful in the future and not be so terse. A few more words make all the difference: I am in the US and have relatives.

And I'm probably signing off for yom tov so I want to say, no need to apologize because unfortunately there's a lot of snark out there. Be well.

I understand people are sensitive.
What got me here was the sarcasm when people are injured and dying.
It was an instant reaction! I’m sorry.

realsilver ↓

Sun, May 16 2021, 3:28 pm

alwayssmiling wrote:

I wish someone would explain a reason to all these endless sufferings and death
what are we doing wrong????

We’re in galus unfortunately. Crying

Hopefully these things one after the next are ikvasa dimeshicha and we will soon understand why...

amother

↑ Scarlet

Sun, May 16 2021, 3:34 pm

amother [ Cyan ] wrote:

BD”E
A 12 yr old boy and and 40 yr old R”L

OMG!! Devastating!! Minutes before Shvuos, in their finery, ready to accept the Torah all over again and rejoice!
How, Hashem?!! HOW????

Frumme

Sun, May 16 2021, 3:40 pm

amother [ Cyan ] wrote:

Trigger Warning- An Arab Spokesperson from Ichud Hatzalah reports 2 dead R”L 10 critical.

BDE

Question, why does it matter if it was an Arab spokesperson or otherwise who reported the news?

↑ realsilver

Sun, May 16 2021, 3:42 pm

Frumme wrote:

BDE

Question, why does it matter if it was an Arab spokesperson or otherwise who reported the news?

Because it’s Tom tov there already!

amother

↑ OP

Sun, May 16 2021, 3:42 pm

Frumme wrote:

BDE

Question, why does it matter if it was an Arab spokesperson or otherwise who reported the news?

Bc in case ppl wondering its already yt

↑ First Lady

Sun, May 16 2021, 3:42 pm

Frumme wrote:

BDE

Question, why does it matter if it was an Arab spokesperson or otherwise who reported the news?

Because it's YomTov there and people would question under what circumstances a spokesperson is allowed to give real time updates.