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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 9:08 am
Go listen to ‘A Yid’ by Benny Friedman...
Someone posted this and it hit home so I’m going to post it here:
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 9:23 am
TravelHearter wrote: | Go listen to ‘A Yid’ by Benny Friedman...
Someone posted this and it hit home so I’m going to post it here:
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My dh was just playing this on his guitar I'm crying. Just heard that my parents neighbour was found dead. Bde. A young married man.. Both the girls family and his family are well known. I'm broken 😥it's like 9 av. Will lag b'omer be a happy day again?!
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 9:23 am
Rappel wrote: | For those saying that police just stood and watched: the videos I saw showed policemen reaching into the mass to pull people to safety, and Police pulling down corrugated metal partitions (Very difficult),to give the crowd an escape route and relieve the crush. All at tremendous personal risk of being crushed themselves.
Let's honour our first responders whom worked to save more lives from an unimaginable accident. It was a terrible situation, and the men whom ran to help are not to blame. | exactly
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Ima Piano
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 9:24 am
It feels like tisha bav, 9/11 and a fast day all in one.
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emma07
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 9:26 am
enneamom wrote: | This video finally broke me down:
Watch: Kaddish prayer for victims of Meron disaster
Along with photos of chilonim in Tel Aviv lining up to donate blood.why mention chilonim... we are all Jews doesn’t matter your lever of observance
We are all one family. |
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mizle10
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 9:35 am
How do we tell our children??
My 7 year old son knew Dovi well. How can I explain something I myself can’t wrap my head around??
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PurpleandGold
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 9:39 am
mizle10 wrote: | How do we tell our children??
My 7 year old son knew Dovi well. How can I explain something I myself can’t wrap my head around?? |
With great gentleness, just the very basic details is best for children. "A terrible accident happened in Eretz Yisrael, and someone we know was niftar. We are so sad.". Allow him to ask questions, be very basic with the details, "A ramp collapsed and some people fell down and were niftar.". Allow him to express all of his feelings and just validate, validate, validate. Make sure to tell him that if he hears anything scary from friends he should come talk to you about it.
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dena613
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 9:43 am
I called project chai hotline because I wanted help processing, figuring out how to tell my kids. The woman I spoke to was so compassionate and helpful
855-3-CRISIS
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professor
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 10:30 am
mizle10 wrote: | How do we tell our children??
My 7 year old son knew Dovi well. How can I explain something I myself can’t wrap my head around?? |
I'm so sorry, this is so hard for the children!! And bachurim. And everyone... I am still processing this horrible tragedy myself, and can't let it sink in...
Explain it to him like purpleandgold said... Hashem yishmor Hashem yerachem
No one even wants to hear music today... is this how they felt when R Akiva's talmidim were niftar??
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Chayalle
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 10:31 am
gingleale wrote: | Baruch Dayan Ha'Emet. Nachman Daniel ben Miriam Elana from Bergenfield, NJ who was learning at Shalavim was found and tragically passed away. |
B"DE
My nephew is classmates and friends with his younger brother.
Hashem should be with them and everyone thru this.
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superstar
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 10:34 am
can you post it here? I cant access the video?
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enneamom
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 10:52 am
lkwd_mom wrote: | can you post it here? I cant access the video? |
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 10:53 am
mizle10 wrote: | I’m from Montreal, someone in our community lost a son. It’s unfathomable. BD”E Dovi Steinmetz. Our entire community is mourning. |
Is this the steinmetz who has another kid who married into a very well known family from Monsey?
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mizle10
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 10:55 am
cutestbaby wrote: | Is this the steinmetz who has another kid who married into a very well known family from Monsey? |
Yes. Dovi was his younger brother.
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youngishbear
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 10:55 am
What does he say at the end?
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Java
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 10:56 am
mizle10 wrote: | Yes. Dovi was his younger brother. |
Oh no.
I was in seminary with his sister in law
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JKA
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 11:29 am
I think he’s asking them mechila on behalf of the volunteers the police etc.
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trixx
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 11:38 am
PurpleandGold wrote: | With great gentleness, just the very basic details is best for children. "A terrible accident happened in Eretz Yisrael, and someone we know was niftar. We are so sad.". Allow him to ask questions, be very basic with the details, "A ramp collapsed and some people fell down and were niftar.". Allow him to express all of his feelings and just validate, validate, validate. Make sure to tell him that if he hears anything scary from friends he should come talk to you about it. |
Be sure to differentiate that this is not the same kind of ramp that he sees in front of stores for accessibility, or like the bleachers in his school gym. Ie not a ramp that he's ever going to encounter.
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b.chadash
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 11:46 am
They are asking people to take upon themselves to light candles early tonight.
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tweety1
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Fri, Apr 30 2021, 12:06 pm
This Tauber I hear is also well known in Monsey. They mother is a principal in some school.
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