Girl's "privates" | Imamother

↑ vintagebknyc ↓

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 4:38 pm

sushi galore wrote:

To Clarissa and Chani8:
I was a pre school teacher for both girls and boys. You have not the minutest clue what kids say. You cannot (ever) imagine what little bright kids pick up and repeat innocently in school. Our pre school principal has had to talk to parents about this. And you would not want your child saying such things innocently about you. Guaranteed! Or else your the weird ones.

I think you've missed the entire point about controlling communities.

it is normal for children to say these words. normal. any psychiatrist will tell you this. go ahead, ask them. that parents are called by a principal because little shlomo used the word p*nis, that's where the trouble lies.

↑ bamamama

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 4:41 pm

sushi galore wrote:

What exactly is the problem? I also teach my kids that p.enises and vulvas are private and not something we discuss with people at the grocery store, at the park, etc. Why didn't the teacher just address the issue as such? The terminology is not the problem.

↑ busydev ↓

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 4:58 pm

vintagebknyc wrote:

sushi galore wrote:

why you so sure sushi galore was talking about the word aiver. I thought she meant talking about seeing parents naked.

myself

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 4:59 pm

Clarissa wrote:

Not to get too personal, but if you can't call these parts by name, how do you say them when you're with your husband?

Do you think a good intimate life can't be had without the correct terminology!?
Me thinks words are not (always) necessary...

↑ amother ↓

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 5:02 pm

myself wrote:

Clarissa wrote:

Not to get too personal, but if you can't call these parts by name, how do you say them when you're with your husband?

Do you think a good intimate life can't be had without the correct terminology!?
Me thinks words are not (always) necessary...

yes this.

we almost never call my parts by anything other then down there. and dh is just p*nis so not a biggy. and we have a very good intimate life if I do say so myself. its really not needed.

I mean in romance books and all do they really say the names? Not often- usually its euphemisms like flower, member etc... and boy do they have good intimate lives LOL

↑ vintagebknyc

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 5:03 pm

busydev wrote:

vintagebknyc wrote:

sushi galore wrote:

why you so sure sushi galore was talking about the word aiver. I thought she meant talking about seeing parents naked.

because she said the above, bolded.

↑ busydev

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 5:05 pm

vintagebknyc wrote:

busydev wrote:

vintagebknyc wrote:

sushi galore wrote:

why you so sure sushi galore was talking about the word aiver. I thought she meant talking about seeing parents naked.

because she said the above, bolded.

right but obviously if a parent is teaching them to say peni5 that wouldnt be something that they cannot imagine children talking about and picking up.

I understood her as meaning other things...

↑ Clarissa ↓

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 5:45 pm

sushi galore wrote:

What on earth could you possibly know about me that would make you post such a statement about me? Do you know anything at all about me?

And I don't particularly care if my kid says something about me.
MY KID: Hey, Ben. My mother doesn't have a pen*s!
BEN: Really?

So what?

Frankly, I wouldn't want my kid to have a preschool teacher who gets so undone with such talk.

↑ Clarissa ↓

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 5:49 pm

amother wrote:

myself wrote:

Clarissa wrote:

Not to get too personal, but if you can't call these parts by name, how do you say them when you're with your husband?

Do you think a good intimate life can't be had without the correct terminology!?
Me thinks words are not (always) necessary...

Sorry your husband is a p*enis and not a big one. He might not want you sharing that.

↑ Barbara ↓

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 5:55 pm

Clarissa wrote:

amother wrote:

myself wrote:

Clarissa wrote:

Not to get too personal, but if you can't call these parts by name, how do you say them when you're with your husband?

Do you think a good intimate life can't be had without the correct terminology!?
Me thinks words are not (always) necessary...

Sorry your husband is a p*enis and not a big one. He might not want you sharing that.

Don't worry. Amother points out that "its really not needed."

↑ Clarissa ↓

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 6:02 pm

myself wrote:

Clarissa wrote:

Not to get too personal, but if you can't call these parts by name, how do you say them when you're with your husband?

Do you think a good intimate life can't be had without the correct terminology!?
Me thinks words are not (always) necessary...

She said she doesn't use any words at all. I mean yeah, I'd think you need a word or two, even if they're stupid nicknames.

↑ amother ↓

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 6:03 pm

Barbara wrote:

Clarissa wrote:

amother wrote:

myself wrote:

Clarissa wrote:

Not to get too personal, but if you can't call these parts by name, how do you say them when you're with your husband?

Do you think a good intimate life can't be had without the correct terminology!?
Me thinks words are not (always) necessary...

Sorry your husband is a p*enis and not a big one. He might not want you sharing that.

Don't worry. Amother points out that "its really not needed."

to clarify (tho im sure you really got it and are just making a good joke) the "real words" are not needed to have a good intimate life.
and if he had 20 different parts the we would probably pick one word to refer to doen there. (ok 20 is an exaggeration- women have what 5 different parts making up their vulvas) but seriously I dont think I ever said vagin@ to him in reference to s@x or during it.
and im amother so he wont mind that I shared that info. cause anyways I cant be taken seriously. LOL

↑ amother ↓

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 6:07 pm

Clarissa wrote:

myself wrote:

Clarissa wrote:

Not to get too personal, but if you can't call these parts by name, how do you say them when you're with your husband?

Do you think a good intimate life can't be had without the correct terminology!?
Me thinks words are not (always) necessary...

She said she doesn't use any words at all. I mean yeah, I'd think you need a word or two, even if they're stupid nicknames.

couldnt the generic "down there" work if you need to say something about... something... down there?

↑ Clarissa ↓

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 6:08 pm

amother wrote:

Clarissa wrote:

myself wrote:

Clarissa wrote:

Not to get too personal, but if you can't call these parts by name, how do you say them when you're with your husband?

Do you think a good intimate life can't be had without the correct terminology!?
Me thinks words are not (always) necessary...

She said she doesn't use any words at all. I mean yeah, I'd think you need a word or two, even if they're stupid nicknames.

couldnt the generic "down there" work if you need to say something about... something... down there?

Not if you want to ask if he likes to be touched in a particular spot, of if you want him to touch a particular spot. But to each her own. I'm more concerned about people not making their children uncomfortable.

↑ greenfire ↓

Thu, Jun 13 2013, 6:22 pm

myself wrote:

Clarissa wrote:

Not to get too personal, but if you can't call these parts by name, how do you say them when you're with your husband?

Do you think a good intimate life can't be had without the correct terminology!?
Me thinks words are not (always) necessary...

I always thought silence was golden ~ now I feel like I might have missed out on something embarrassed

↑ yogabird

Fri, Jun 14 2013, 4:54 am

chani8 wrote:

yogabird wrote:

The Bible tells us that after Adam and Eve sinned in the Garden of Eden, they saw that they were naked, and they were ashamed [of their nakedness].

There was nobody there aside for the two of them, G-d, and some angels.

And the angels were pointing and laughing.

Chani8, I assume you're kidding. If you're not, please elaborate.

What this episode indicates to me, is that the notion that we attach a modicum of shame, some embarrassment, and yes, maybe even a little blushing and stammering when discussing bodily functions, is not entirely out of place.

I once heard someone relating about a person of spiritual stature that they would never say "I want to eat," or "I need to sleep." They were too refined for that. Instead they'd say "can I have a little bite," or "I'd like to lay down for a bit."

Bring it on

↑ FranticFrummie

Fri, Jun 14 2013, 6:02 am

All this talk reminds me of a Shabbos we spent at a friend's house. My DD was about 3 at the time. She walks up to my friend's 14 year old son and says "You sure got a lot of balls!"

shock

You could have heard a pin drop. Everyone at the table just stopped and waited to see what was going to happen next. The boy was so sweet and aidel, he just stood there with a nervous smile. Then DD goes on to say "You've got baseballs, basketballs, footballs - you must really like sports!"

Whew

Suddenly, we all found that we could breathe again. I don't think any of use will ever forget that moment. LOL

↑ Clarissa ↓

Fri, Jun 14 2013, 7:13 am

One more note to the people who think the husband just has a p*nis: there's more, and some of the other stuff may be erogenous zones. It's like saying women just have a v*agina. Learn the names or come up with nicknames. But for those women here who don't have good s*x lives, it might behoove you to get comfortable talking a little.

Back to our program, which of course is about the CHILDREN. The ones with no-name genitalia.