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Do you like davening in shul?
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amother
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Post Wed, Sep 13 2023, 11:27 pm
Mabe its because as a kid id get yelled at if I so much as turned the page too late. But im so happy im not going to shul.
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amother
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Post Wed, Sep 13 2023, 11:28 pm
I like the davening, or at least parts of it.
I like it better on Yom Kippur because of the Avodah.
I don't like how much my feet hurt from all the standing.
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dena613




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 13 2023, 11:39 pm
Love shul
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amother
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Post Wed, Sep 13 2023, 11:43 pm
Not at all on rh yk. I feel I give much more heart to my tefilos in private at home. In shul I have adhd.
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amother
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Post Wed, Sep 13 2023, 11:44 pm
I used to love going to shul, but now that I don’t go regularly, I find it hard to stay so long. And that makes me sad 😞 (BH for good reasons though)
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amother
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Post Wed, Sep 13 2023, 11:44 pm
I love going to shul. My soul comes alive. So distressed about not going.
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amother
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Post Wed, Sep 13 2023, 11:46 pm
Yes I do. I feel the davening much more. At home I mumble the words and I’m distracted

I switch off tefillos with a friend so I can make it for some of davening at least
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amother
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Post Wed, Sep 13 2023, 11:47 pm
Nope. haven been to shul in about 8 years.
Nothing to do with little kids. Mine are all groen up.
I havent davened in a siddur in that long. And I would feel strange going to shul when I dont feel any connrction to god.
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mommy3b2c




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 13 2023, 11:48 pm
I strongly dislike davening in Shul.
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amother
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Post Thu, Sep 14 2023, 12:20 am
Nope hate it!
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Gt




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 14 2023, 12:41 am
I love Davening in shul! It was hard for me not to go for so many years with small kids at home BH. For good reasons , but still it was something I had to work through. I am so happy to be able to daven in shul now.
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silverlining3




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 14 2023, 12:57 am
Nope. I like my space. At home
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amother
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Post Thu, Sep 14 2023, 1:11 am
Not unless I really like the chazzan, and even then not really. I haven't heard a chazzan I really liked in years.
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grace413




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 14 2023, 1:48 am
Love davening in shul.

Can't focus at home.
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salt




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 14 2023, 1:58 am
I love it.
But didn't go all the years that I had was home with little kids.
I went as a child, teenager, and married before I had kids, and I go now - most shabbatot and yom tov.
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ima_bima




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 14 2023, 2:01 am
I didn't know how much I loved davening in shul til I had half a dozen kids and tried davening with them at home....
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mha3484




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 14 2023, 1:15 pm
I love shul and love the paid babysitting. I have ADHD and I think there is something about being in the same room with everyone doing the same thing because when I try to daven at home I end up sitting on the couch staring into space. At shul I can focus a billion times easier.
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amother
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Post Thu, Sep 14 2023, 1:21 pm
Love talking to God. Hate going to shul, hate opening a siddur. I have so much religious trauma around being forced to daven and go to shul that 40 years later I still have very strong negative feelings about it.
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Goody2shoes




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 14 2023, 1:27 pm
I love shul, there's something about davening with a tzibbur and listening to my shul's 500 or so men singing the nusach together, It's really B'rov am hadras melech.
I find it a lot harder to concentrate at home, I loose my kavana a lot faster
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613mitzvahgirl




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 14 2023, 1:37 pm
I have some of my kids that do go to shul and some that don’t. I’m needed at home and it’s not possible for me to. I love hearing people daven and being around it. It literally makes my Neshomah soar. I daven at home with my kids that are home meaning I just show them what to daven. The only thing I dislike about it, no matter how many times I go I get so lost. I can never keep up with the davening. I daven in English and can’t really read the Hebrew and it’s very hard pronounce for me. And I feel more connected to HaShem in English. I know we are Yiddishe mommies- but this is me.
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